All this advice is meant with good intention I'm sure, but nowhere have I ever read any suggestions on how to get these stupid witches to realize that they're are ruining there own lives as well as the other poor souls left behind. I've just had my wife leave me after 17 yrs in a good strong physical and emotional marriage for some 23 yr old hobo at her work, she's 36 and extremely attractive. She just seems to have fallen for the bull****, none of her family can understand it either, but here I am with 3 kids and a broken heart. If anyone has any decent advice id love to hear it, but don't feed me the same old lines I've been finding on every web site because its completely useless and doesn't help me get back my gorgeous wife that I so deeply love.
Just been dumped with 3 kids by my gorgeous what I thought was soul mate, we always told each other we loved each other, plenty of hot sex, other couples commented on how lucky we were. Then bang, 23 yr old hobo from her work that she admits will not go anywhere sweeps her away. I know everyone has good intentions but nobody comes up with anything useful to help win back your lost loved one, its all just useless talk. Unless the silly witches wake up and realize they are wasting their time and just hurting many people in the process there is no hope. Nowhere on any site have I found a scrap of decent useful advice on helping win back my beautiful wife.
Forgot to add she is 36 and we've been together for 17 yrs. I'm afraid she will find out she has made a huge mistake, but it will take her a while and I won't want her back because of all the pain she caused me. Any decent advice on how to get her to wake up would be great.
I know this may hurt like hell, but don't be confused.
Look at it this way:
Theres 2 scenarios here:
She will find out the err of her ways, stop screwing this guy, stop her BS plan and realize that you are her one. You forget what has happened and never mention it again. You trust her completely and you live happily ever after. She never does that again.
You wake up, realize what she's doing. (not coming back)
And that she doesn't want you.
Whatever love you feel or felt is no longer there.
Dont kid yourself anymore. Take a stand.
I would also like to know why you never say anything positive about your wife except that she is "beautiful" and "gorgeous".
I think you have always been jealous.
Your children are barely mentioned except for the ages and you never tell us how they are doing.
All you mention is how to get your wife beautiful, gorgeous wife back.
You made it clear by starting two threads that you didn't want advice about divorce and lawyers, just how to get her back.
To call the guy a "hobo' is a bad rap on the real hobo's in the country. I believe your wife left because she is tired of your attitude and tired of being treated
Like an object.
You seem very superficial in your attitude about people. Calling her names makes me see you as an angry kid who has lost a toy. Your marriage wasn't stable and happy, if it had been she wouldn't have left. I think you are a very controlling man.
I still don't understand how she could leave her children, but then again maybe she had no other choice.
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