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Asked Jan 31, 2009, 11:33 AM — 30 Answers
I have caught my husband 3 times signing up for dating sites and getting a profile and all. I ask him why he does it and he says it don't mean nothing.......but it still hurts a lot...I don't know why he keep on doing it, he says he loves me and he doesn't want anyone else....what do I do.

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Jan 31, 2009, 01:11 PM
Ask him if it would be okay if you can start going on dates to actual places?

If it means nothing in the first place, then he would never go on these sites.

He is doing it to meet people. I don't think he is being honest with you.

You need to express how much it hurts you.
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Jan 31, 2009, 01:18 PM


He is registering on dating sites to go out on dates. Sorry but you know what it means.
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Jan 31, 2009, 01:40 PM
Well I told him if I catch him doing it again he can leave....I don't want him...he has this last chance...we have a small child so I want to try one more time...if not he can hit the road
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Jan 31, 2009, 01:44 PM
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Originally Posted by nitelight198073 View Post
Well I told him if I catch him doing it again he can leave....I don't want him...he has this last chance...we have a small child so I want to try one more time...if not he can hit the road
Good for you...you don't need to worry about him cheating!
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Jan 31, 2009, 01:56 PM


So he gets 4 strikes! Good Luck.
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Jan 31, 2009, 02:00 PM
It's not that he doesn't know that he is hurting you, it's that he does not care that he's hurting you.

Next time he comes knocking on your door for marritial bliss (a.k.a. Sex) ask him whether or not he was able to get a date?
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Jan 31, 2009, 02:00 PM


Yes, now he knows to be a lot more careful, do you check the computer data history
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Jan 31, 2009, 02:06 PM
Unplug he computer and tell him it Does matter.He is on line cheating!

Ask him how he would like it if you did the same?

Cut him off..no computer at all and I would check out what he is saying and doing by checking his history.

Snoop and find out how far it has advanced. Keep your evidence and then present him with it. Arm yourself with his words and don't let him know you are watching.
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Jan 31, 2009, 06:12 PM
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yes, now he knows to be a lot more careful, do you check the computer data history
Oh yes and I know all his passwords and such so yes I keep good tabs
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