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In my mind, I think he doesn't find you attractive because you don't see yourself as attractive. YOu allow him to much control and power over your self esteem. When he met you, he fell in love with you. He was attracted to you because you didn't question yourself or think poorly of yourself. Maybe over time you felt it was his responsibility to make you feel that way. However, you have to feel that way in order for others to see you that way. Does that make sense? Try to distance yourself a little bit from your emotions. Draw on some inner strength and give yourself time to feel good. Do something just for you and you will feel a sparkle of confidence and happiness. Try to find things to do that you are good at and that make you feel good. It doesn't matter what it is, just stop putting your worth on him as his responsibility. Guys don't want to feel responsible for your happiness. They want you to be confident and strong. It has nothing to do with beauty. Some of the most beautiful women in the world get cheated on and left. Look at Jennifer Aniston. She seemed to have it all and then bam, Angelina Jolie comes along. She may be beautiful, but it is her energy and charisma that made him fall for her. While Jen was more unsure of herself and needy. Be strong for you, not him. Don't get upset when he doesn't respond the way you need it. Get what you need from you, and your friends or people you meet. The stronger you are, his attraction will also become stronger. The answer never lies in him, it is in you. See yourself as powerful, worthy, beautiful and someone desirable. Read books, practice saying nice things to yourself in the mirror. Do whatever it takes to build you up. I cannot guarantee you can ever change someone else, but when you change the you are and the way you respond, he will be affected by that change. I believe in you!
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