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Why do husbands love to have sex with different women?
There is never just one answer. I can speak from my own exp. you may not beleive it but there are women that just don't have a clue as to what a good sex life means to a man. Thats not always to case but often we hear that men are dogs but remember they were with another woman. You may want to go and get some therapy together if he refuses to go then you might want to go for yourself just to make sure you understand his mind set. If nothing else you will get the strength to leave if you have to.
There is never just one answer. I can speak from my own exp. you may not beleive it but there are women that just don't have a clue as to what a good sex life means to a man. Thats not always to case but often we hear that men are dogs but remember they were with another woman. You may want to go and get some therapy together if he refuses to go then you might want to go for yourself just to make sure you understand his mind set. If nothing else you will get the strength to leave if you have to.
Are you kidding me? A good sex life??? How can you have a GOOD anything with the w***** you are screwing? I hate women who lower themselves to gutter standards. What's wrong with them that they can't find a man of their own to have sex with? Most of these nasty panty chicks have sex with several men, then the men take fluids home to their wives and pretend they have NO IDEA why she's; itching, frofting, oozing, draining, swelling, smelling...
Why do you have to bother...... If he has to cheat on you, do the same and do it even better. A tooth for a tooth and an eye for an eye! Dont get angry, Dont get even, Get ahead of the game!
Cheat with your husband. If he likes the subterfuge, give him that in your relationship. You're married, so you promised you would try. Try this.
Leave him a note from a secret admirer...with a place for him to leave a response. Make sure there are no hints it's from you, at first.
As you leave more notes, send more gifts, etc., you can start to include tiny clues that it might be you.
Then invite him to meet at an out of the way spot. When he comes to you with some reason he has to go out that night, just smile and say..."yeah, me too...have fun...I'm going to be out that night too."
When he shows up, make sure he can't see you first, then you arrive in your "other woman" persona and have a nice evening. "I hope your wife doesn't find out about us...I really want to keep seeing you." I think you give him your name at this point...how about "Lola"?
When you two get home, separately, make sure you look like a haggard housewife again...oblivious to where he's been and what he's doing.
You guys could have a LOT of fun with this. Your alter-ego might turn out to be a LOT more fun than you are, you might even grow to like her yourself.
I'm just saying, you're focusing on what he might do in the future, well, why not be involved in it instead of just a spectator? He is your husband. At least this says you understand and appreciate the situation, but he's still your man.
All my post is pointing out my benefits of being with my wife. I have never cheated nor do I plan to!
Not angry with you--that was from posting above. Congrats for being an honest man! I just did not understand your reply.
Mustard Seed--" If you have FAITH as tiny (even a small amount) as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to you." Matthew 17:20
A biblical quote I love. It shows how merciful God is even towards those with little faith in Him--I happen to have a ton. Have a bottle of same on my desk just so people walking by can ask me why. You just did & I get to post my reply in this forum--thanks!!!
Smile & Be.
Oh, the arrow I threw was for Hurting J. I guess you should have ducked. Smile.