| Lisa,
We do not have to be losers. When people (males and females) agree to cheat with each other, assuming that they both know that one of the two or both are married, they don't think about the pain and suffering they or causing for someone else. Or they do not care.
I do believe that there is a chemistry between men and women that can ignite in a spontaneous moment. It did for me when I met my Lady for the first time. To this date I have never met a woman that fascinates me more then my Lady. In point of fact, I never really look for that in another woman.
I do believe that it is the responsibility of the person contemplating cheating that needs to get whacked back into place. They have the ability to say no, regardless of the situation they find themselves in |