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Old May 14, 2007, 11:56 AM
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When a friendship goes to far

Does anyone think that it's normal for a married man who's 35 to have a frienship with a 20 year old co worker girl for them to text page one another and call each other, also when the wife goes to the job and then she sees his wife and she gets very upset and storms out of the job and slams her car door and takes off like a lunatic on the job's lot

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Old May 14, 2007, 11:59 AM   #2  
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35 year old man (married) + 20 year old GIRL (coworker) = nothing but trouble

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Old May 14, 2007, 12:06 PM   #3  
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Only question is if the trouble has already happened. I would highly suspect they are more than friends and are probably "dating".

You dont mention if this is happening to you or someone you know but I think your just refusing to see that they are closer than friends and may be having sex.

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Old May 14, 2007, 12:34 PM   #4  
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I say it is bad news. But that is just me not giving the hot mama and the sugar daddie the benefit of the doubt!
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Old May 14, 2007, 04:36 PM   #5  
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Does anyone think that it's normal for a married man who's 35 to have a frienship with a 20 year old co worker girl for them to text page one another and call each other, also when the wife goes to the job and then she sees his wife and she gets very upset and storms out of the job and slams her car door and takes off like a lunatic on the job's lot
No, I do not think that is normal.
It is certainly unhealthy in my opinion.

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Old May 14, 2007, 05:55 PM   #6  
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normal, yes normal for a man who is having an affair with the younger girl, and it is very commom.
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Old May 14, 2007, 07:16 PM   #7  
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normal , i wouldnt say so, most likely hes missing something and hes trying to get it through her, he also likes that attention from someone else.

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cerisa disagrees: he seems to be missing about 20 years of maturity, and missing the part about marriage being faithful to one another. not all people who stray are missing something in the marriage, sometimes they are missing something in themselves
AKaeTrue agrees: Balancer, disagreeing with this answer is unjustified. The answer is stating that the situation is not normal.
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Old May 15, 2007, 11:16 AM   #8  
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If I were seeing the situation that you are describing, I'd think that they were having an affair already...
The girl wouldn't be acting so jealous and crazy if they just had a business relationship.

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Old Sep 23, 2007, 08:00 PM   #9  
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This sounds messy from several angles. The married/single part, the age difference (although this isn't terrible), but the CO-WORKER part is troublesome to me. Could be a sexual harassment or inappropriate relationship case in the making.

Not sure what your role in it is, but I'd be cautious if you are involved or if you are associated with either party.
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Old Sep 24, 2007, 06:19 AM   #10  
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A lot of red flags waving. Not good or healthy, and Highly, I repeat HIGHLY suspicous. A good honest talk is neccesary.
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