Please help me! My husband I started fighting about one month ago..another argument about how he treats my daughter (no patience). This continued with me giving him the silent treatment (usually lasts about a week) I know that's immature but I always hope he will see how mad it makes me. Instead he gets mad and does a disappearing act where he will leave the house usually sunday? At around 2pm and return home around 2 am. Most times he is drunk. This happened a week after our fight. I asked him where did he go..he told me and something in my gut didn't feel right. I checked into his story and found out he lied. He asked me for one more chance and told me he lied because he didn't want to keep arguing. After his disappearing act I and lie I was very upset thinking the absolute worst senario..like him being a woman's house. He lied about going to the races to be at his friends house? So to make myself feel better I went on the computer and signed myself up for a dating site. Stupid I know but it temporarily made me feel wanted. He discovered this on the computer and snapped out of his mood and promised me he would become a better man to me and my daughter, he would quit drinking which he does a lot and hides it a lot. He asked me to stop the computer dating site which I did immediately. 3 days went by and things seemed back to normal..while I was home for lunch from work I discovered he had signed himself up for a dating website and when I confronted him he actually had the nerve to lie that he didn't check out the profiles of girls that were sent to him. The computer history doesn't lie..just him. He then lied again about drinking beer (i had counted the ones that were still in the house) he lied again about where they went. I stopped talking to him again because I couldn't believe that he would lie to me so soon. He hasn't tried to repair any of this damage, instead he comes home and sits around doing nothing because I'm so mad about his lying. We went to one counselling session and the counsellor said she couldn't help us she said I was too mad at him for throwing away the trust by disappearing for 12 hours and lying about it. On sunday night after I spend a few days trying to avoid him..he came home at 12:30 a.m and he was drunk. I kicked him out. Am I over reacting to him lying to me or continuing to do nothing to prove to me he will change his behavior? I feel completely betrayed,he is all talk and no action unless I sweep his lying under the carpet which is what he expects me to do. Thank you for reading this and PLEASE SOMEONE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!