I went to a bachelor party

inthedogbox · Aug 1, 2007, 06:54 AM

I went to a bachelor party "weekend" in Myrtle beach with 10 guys. It ended up Saturday night in a strip club. I did not tell my wife but when she asked id did tell her. Now she has gone of the deep end. What can i do?

star3114 · Sep 29, 2007, 05:13 PM

But again...it take a lot of energy to stay mad for that amount of time. She needs to understand that you are not adversary....you are her husband. She needs some time to separate the two...and it appears that with you there it isnt helping. She needs time alone to process. You didn't cheat on her, she has no reason to be acting this way. She is being very dramatic and it is going to drive a wedge between you....especially over something so silly. She needs time alone to figure out if she can get over it....if she can....she needs to. If not, well then that is whole new ball of wax. You did nothing immoral or criminal...she needs to stop acting like you did. It seems like being apart will be the only thing that does it. Because then she can see how much of a void you fill in her life. She can see what it is really like to sleep alone....that will cause her to think if this disagreement is worth that. Quite frankly, she is being a little immature about the whole situation.

AdvicePlease · Oct 12, 2007, 10:11 AM

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Originally Posted by star3114

But again...it take a lot of energy to stay mad for that amount of time. She needs to understand that you are not adversary....you are her husband. She needs some time to separate the two...and it appears that with you there it isnt helping. She needs time alone to process. You didn't cheat on her, she has no reason to be acting this way. She is being very dramatic and it is going to drive a wedge between you....especially over something so silly. She needs time alone to figure out if she can get over it....if she can....she needs to. If not, well then that is whole new ball of wax. You did nothing immoral or criminal...she needs to stop acting like you did. It seems like being apart will be the only thing that does it. Because then she can see how much of a void you fill in her life. She can see what it is really like to sleep alone....that will cause her to think if this disagreement is worth that. Quite frankly, she is being a little immature about the whole situation.

Hi STAR3114...just wanted to say thanks :-)

Things went back to normal the day after your last post to me. We went to the wedding in Vegas last weekend. It was a lot of fun. Got to hang out with friends which we haven't seen in a while, etc.

:-)

star3114 · Oct 12, 2007, 06:22 PM

I am so glad!! Best of wishes!

stonewilder · Oct 12, 2007, 06:55 PM

If she trusted you at the beach with out her where there is half necked woman walking around looking to get laid why not trust you at a strip bar? Tell her you're sorry you went without telling her and next time you'll be sure to take her with you. JK that would be stupid.