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I want to set my husband up so that I can force a separation

Asked Apr 21, 2009, 02:23 PM — 29 Answers
My marriage has become stale. I no longer love my husband. He is not the man I married. I want to set him up with another woman in order that I can get photographic proof that he is being unfaithful as a means of forcing him from our marital home. How do I go about setting him up with another woman & getting photographic proof of his illicit encounter.

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Apr 21, 2009, 02:29 PM
So you want to entrap him?
That doesn't say much about your character does it?
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Apr 21, 2009, 02:29 PM
Your not a very good person if you plan on doing what you say. Just be up front and honest with him! You must have a good reason to want to set him up like that. Not very nice!
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Apr 21, 2009, 02:38 PM
Your character only tells us that you are heartless and the "stale" feeling in your marriage is probably coming from you.

If you want a divorce all you need to do is take it to a judge.....no court will allow a man or woman to be stuck in a dead end marriage.
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Apr 21, 2009, 02:45 PM
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My marriage has become stale. I no longer love my husband. He is not the man I married. I want to set him up with another woman in order that I can get photographic proof that he is being unfaithful as a means of forcing him from our marital home. How do I go about setting him up with another woman & getting photographic proof of his illicit encounter.
This is about the most idiotic post about the most idiotic idea I have heard in awhile. You wish to set your husband up with a mistress, so then you can take photos and you think that will give you the rights to the marital household.

First legally a lot of this even depends on your state as photographs may not be admissible and if you are an "irreconcilable differences" state then catching him cheating wouldn't do you any good?

I think you should discuss this idea with your husband and then he can want the divorce, maybe he will even kick you out. I can't even imagine if their are children involved, but I hope this isn't the way you would like to raise them. Setting their father up to commit adultery.

Do you even have reason to believe that he would be unfaithful to you even if you pushed him to be?
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Apr 21, 2009, 02:46 PM
In addition to what the others have said, this could come back and royally bite you in the @$$. You do realize that the other woman you hire could come to court, testifying what you tried to do just to get what you wanted?

Oh, and you don't get to just "force him" from your marital home if he has an affair. I don't know what planet you're on but that's not how it works.
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Apr 21, 2009, 02:55 PM
There's a much easier way to go about things. Try saying "I want a divorce." Plain and simple. You don't have to demean both you in order to separate. I wouldn't be surprised if your husband readily agreed to be freed from someone of your character. In fact, I'd be shocked if he didn't.
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Apr 21, 2009, 03:06 PM
I think its funny that you would come here on an open web site ,for all the world to see and make a post about committing a crime.It is called entrapment and possibly perjury if you were to testify in court.

You used your name and you have a ISP address.
For someone who is planning such a cunning operation of deceit,your not too bright.
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Apr 21, 2009, 03:13 PM
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My marriage has become stale. I no longer love my husband. He is not the man I married. I want to set him up with another woman in order that I can get photographic proof that he is being unfaithful as a means of forcing him from our marital home. How do I go about setting him up with another woman & getting photographic proof of his illicit encounter.
Woman are you serious? I cannot believe this nonesense you are incredibly wicked! How could you be so mean and heartless.! You don't love the man then leave! I wish I knew your husband and friends so I can tell them all about this moronic plan of yours that lacks every aspect of common sense.

You are A complete LOSER.

CAN A MOD TAKE DOWN THIS INCREDIBLY STUPID POST.
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Apr 21, 2009, 03:25 PM


And where have you been living for the last 30+ years? The days where you have to prove adultery to get a divorce are long gone. Getting a divorce is fairly easy these days. There is no reason to go to the illegal effort to entrap your husband to get a divorce.
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