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Dec 23, 2007, 10:44 AM
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| | | Is it an affair?
Is it an affair if you don't have sexual intercourse with the other person? Does oral count? Does passionate kissing count?
I need to know!
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Dec 23, 2007, 10:57 AM
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#2
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Pay to call J_9 for advice ($.75/min) | Yes, oral counts...so does kissing.
There are emotional affairs too. |
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Dec 23, 2007, 11:04 AM
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#3
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Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: South Carolina
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| Ask your partner...see what she/he has to say. No doubt the answer will be YES! If you don't know what constitutes an affair you probably shouldn't be married at all. | |
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Dec 23, 2007, 11:17 AM
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#4
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Pay to call ScottGem for advice ($.75/min) | Any expression of love, emotional or physical or any sexual activity with someone other than your spouse is an affair. | |
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Dec 23, 2007, 01:12 PM
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#5
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| Just dating with no sexual contact at all is still cheating, and unless you are Bill Clilnton oral is sex and is most certainly cheating. | |
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Dec 23, 2007, 02:06 PM
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| Dear unsure...
Yes, my dear friend, it's still crossing the line. The others who have posted have said it perfect. I think you knew the answer before you asked but were looking for a way to make it a little okay in your head.
You are playing in a dangerous waters friend and you have to be very careful. Regardless, of the excuses I hear all the time, "Our relationship is on the rocks" or "We are taking a break" All those examples are just lame excuses.
You have to be extremely careful because there is a girl or a guy on the other end whose life as they know it can come apart in an instant. You could virtually be destroying a relationship or even a marriage. A broken heart is a serious and painful experience that I wish nobody had to deal with.
You can't take back what you have done but you can stop now. Walk away and find somebody, if you are the single one, who is also single. If you are not the single one, let go of that relationship for the sake of the one you are suppose to be committed too.
Please hear me and understand this only ends with somebody getting deeply hurt. | |
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Dec 23, 2007, 02:13 PM
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| Yes, to both of your questions. | |
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Dec 23, 2007, 08:12 PM
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#8
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| "Is it an affair if you don't have sexual intercourse with the other person? Does oral count? Does passionate kissing count? I need to know!"
May I inquire, why? | |
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Dec 23, 2007, 08:14 PM
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#9
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| Yes!!! | |
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Dec 24, 2007, 05:49 AM
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| If you have to ask why, that scares me and the best advice I can give you, is it's time to see a doctor. | |
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