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New to the site . Just have heard that there some good advise .
Ok . Is it possible to be totally in love w/ two people? One being your spouse and the other a friend ?
That threw me a bit as well the first time I read it, though I think she is using that abbreviation to denote "best friend." Arguably not the standard interpretation, but then again, I could be wrong here as well. It reminds me of the title of a song by Frente!, called "Bizarre Love Triangle."
Well this isn't the first time we get to the heart of the matter after a lot of running around, but the OP is the only one to clear this up. Then I will be pissed to no end for being jacked around for this long, I mean shouldn't facts like that be in the original question? Okay Marlene , ball in your court.
You say that you love your husband and his best friend but in totaly different ways. Do these totaly different ways both involve sex. If it didn't I could see how you might love two men differently and it work out if the husband liked the guy enough to feel the same way about him as you do. But when you bring sex into the equation you are only butting a time period on the entire situation. Sooner or later it is all going to explode.
I love my husband and my friend.. my friend knows I am married but I have sex wtih him and not my husband... as I am no longer attraced to my husband in this way but we have an amazing friendship... what should I do?
I love my husband and my friend.. my friend knows I am married but I have sex wtih him and not my husband... as I am no longer attraced to my husband in this way but we have an amazing friendship... what should I do?
Please start another thread as it gets confusing keeping up with different posters.
New to the site . Just have heard that there some good advise .
Ok . Is it possible to be totally in love w/ two people? One being your spouse and the other a friend ?
that is totaly possible! my mom is in the same sort of dillema. she has had more than two though. do you still love your spouse? she does. she gets frustrated with my father a lot but she still loves him. she has had other men in her live than just my father. hope you can make a good choice to who you want. my parents are still together but my mom talks to the other guys. good luck.
This is all a bunch of B.S........if you are married then that is who you should be sleeping with. You guys are killing me!!!!!! Oh, lesianlover please don't walk in your mothers shoes, they are way too small for you!
Thank you all for your advise. It really help me think . Although as of right now I am torn. Yes sex has happened w/ the bf, but ... it is almost like when I am with him , it is only him . At the same time I have my life w/ my husband ( which is wonderful , practically a perfect life. ) and when I am home w/ my 4 kids , it is only them .
We all have been friends for many many years so this nonthing that has just came up. I believe it is true and I am confused. Thank you all for your advise.
nothing every just comes up....
as with everything in life: we are the ones who make the choice....
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