Hello, you know...since I was just a little girl, I had a crush on this boy and later on in life he became my boyfriend. We dated for about 3 months and i cant even remember why we broke up. Then the years passed by and I started having dreams about him..but these dreams were weird. I kept seeing him around in my dreams...not necessarily with me but still in my dreams. Its been about 8 years and I still dream about him very frequently. I dont know why if i dont think about him during the day. When I dream about him I start thinking about him and realize that i still care for him. Im married now with a beautiful baby girl and the very best husband but I cannot get this guy out of my mind!! I still see him around once in a while but I would like to know what this means. Why is he in my dreams and due to this, I think about him...Ive never told anyone because I dont want anyone to know...PLEASE, if you have ANY advice or thoughts on this let me know!!


GREATLY APPRECIATED!

just another girl...

Dragonfire24

You have a family now and that is something to hold on to. Sometimes our souls can be so greatly connected to someone else that it may pull us towards them, or cause us to think of them or even dream of them. It sounds alot like something I once went through. My advice is to keep your family first and foremost in your mind. You have a good thing going for you and it would be a bad thing to ruin. However you should probably look into just what kind of bond or connection you have with this guy. I know most people don't believe in this but one way may be to find a decent psychic in your area. A tarot card reading might help you. Other than that it could take quite a bit of soul searching on your part.

just another girl

Thanks Dragonfire24. I know that my familiy is first and more important than anything else in the world and I also know that I wouldnt do anything to jeurt them. Nothing like leaving or even talking about this to this guy has even crossed my mind. I dont even know if this guy even has any feelings left for me but im just so curious and so tired of feeling this way for so many years. Ive tried a million times to get over it but those dreams are always there to haunt me(you can say) and then its rebound! Your advice was greatly appreciated. THANKS!

Dragonfire24

It's good to know that you have your priorities straightened out. If those dreams are hanuting you, then you really should find out why.

Carmella

i ones was in a simular situation it could be.. that for some Reason in dreams People we know try to contact us and give us messages i n those Dreams for example because this guy has thought about you too. Dont worry your marriage is not in dangour but i get the feeling you should try to find this Man. you will get the Answer when you do find him. Maby you were seperated suddenly without having the chance to say Goodbye or something you missed.

ordinaryguy

There's a school of thought regarding dream interpretation that says every person in your dream represents an aspect of yourself. You might consider what aspect of yourself he represents by thinking back to who you were and what you were doing when he was an active part of your life. Just a possibility that has helped me in the past.

just another girl

Thanks Carmela! I Greatly Appreciate Your Response! Thnaks For Your Help! =)

just another girl

Thanks! I Will Check Into That!! =)

sovaira

try to keep him out of mind
in this way u will over come him


its true that love just happens once in life!