Hello everyone, i'm on the verge of a divorce and i want to be sure i'm doing the right thing. I'm 24 and i got married when i was 18, the marriage was as a result of my husband looking desprately for a wife. i was not ready for marriage but he convinced me that he was going to take care of me. We courted for 6 months and i assumed i feel in love. He used the sweetest words ever and made me feel like a queen, he gave me everything i desired so far he had it. We lived apart for 3 years though we saw each other after every 3 months. After 3 years i had a daugther. After 5 years my marriage started taking another dimension, my husband constantly communicates with girls and get emotionally involved with them though i'm not sure if he ever got sexually involved. This did not bother me as such and we talked about it and he promised never to hurt me. However the real pain came, my younger sister came to spend the holiday with us and he became too emotionally involved with her, he never took his eyes off her, he told her how much he loves her and proclaimed so many things that he had told me to win me in the past. He signs into dating websites and gets himself involved with young girls, he selects his looking for a girl for marriage?? he's known to be a blatant liar by everyone who knows him well including my self. his life is all about lies....i dont know what to do because he was my first love ...i'm in pains, i cry everyday, i feel all so alone....i want a divorce but i'm confused...

s_cianci

Call a good, experienced divorce attorney now. This marriage is dead and has been for a long time. This man has some serious emotional issues to deal with. Until he does he is not going to be able to be a faithful husband.

Jesushelper76

I do think councelling is important, but if nothing works out from that. Then divorce.

Good luck. It is good the decisions your making to have a better life for you and your daughter.

Joe