Re: does this mean he's not committed?
Me and my fiancée are in a very very very long distance relationship, and I'll be the first to admit it's the hardest thing I've ever done. All I do is worry that something's going to change how she feels about me or maybe she's going to change her mind about wanting to get married. But each time that I bring it up when we talk, she makes me realize that I really am the luckiest guy in the world. She wants to talk about everything that bothers me, just so we can make sure that we're not worrying about nothing. I'll be honest, a year ago, I didn't see myself being engaged talking about having children and all the great things that come with it, but now that it's happening, it's the best feeling in the world. My advice to you is to give him time. It takes different people different times to realize how they truly feel about someone. My baby and I have been together for a year and 3 months, but we knew we wanted to be together always in a couple months. I've known people to take years to decide that. She is in a similar situation as your b/f, she's so busy all the time that we hardly get to talk, and I worry about what's going on between us. Is she mad at me, is she falling out of love with me, what?? There's no reason whatsoever for me to worry, but I do anyway. If you love him, make sure you tell him. Tell him everything, don't ever hide it from him. If you worry that he doesn't see long term, sit down with him and let him know your feelings. If you worry about commitment, same thing, talk about it. Don't pressure him or anything, just calmly and peacefully talk about each others feelings. I can assure you that 9 times out of 10 if you're worrying about something, it's usually nothing. Don't let your mind stray when your heart's on the right path. Good luck.
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