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xxroxie05xx · May 16, 2009, 01:27 PM

My boyfriend will not have sex with me, it's been like this for as long as we have been dating. It started with once a week but now its down to 1x every 3-4 monthes, and
I am the one initating it, but I know he watches porn at least 3-4x a week. Is he gay or just unintersted in sex with me?

DBN09 · May 16, 2009, 01:59 PM

Well maybe he pherhaps watches porn for entertaiment. And maybe he wants to have sex with you but maybes he's really shy of sex and he thinks he might do something wrong, and maybe he's worried about pregnancy. I knowthere are condoms but sometimes they fail. So wait until he's ready

liz28 · May 16, 2009, 02:08 PM

Why don't you talk to him about this and find out his reasons because if you can't talk to him about this then the two you shouldn't be having sex in the first place.

Also, watching porn doesn't make you gay so you shouldn't even be saying something like this. If this was the case then everyone would be gay. Now if he is watching gay porn then it might be a different story.

The only thing I can say is talk to him instead of guessing why he doesn't have sex with you and stop jumping to conclusions.

talaniman · May 16, 2009, 02:08 PM

How old are you BOTH, and how long have you been together, AND how long have you been living together? Do you both work, AND go to school?

lovinthetrail · May 23, 2009, 05:53 PM

I can tell you from experience that it is probably the porn watching... addiction to porn changes the way men look at women, ultimately changes the chemical balance in their brain, and makes them kind of psycho and not worthy to be with. I highly encourage you to investigate what porn does to people... truly. God bless.

ChihuahuaMomma · May 23, 2009, 06:00 PM

I agree with Liz. Have you talked to him about this? What does he say? And please provide more information about the relationship (I.E. Talaninman's questions).

ChihuahuaMomma · May 23, 2009, 06:01 PM

Originally Posted by lovinthetrail

I can tell you from experience that it is probably the porn watching... addiction to porn changes the way men look at women, ultimately changes the chemical balance in their brain, and makes em kinda psycho and not worthy to be with. I highly encourage you to investigate what porn does to people... truly. God bless.

Not everyone's experiences are the same. And just because someone watches porn doesn't mean they are addicted to it. There is a lot of this story missing, so we can jump to any one conclusion.