Realistic
Hi,
At 63 yrs old, married for 28 yrs, I am realistic.
Many yrs ago, I loved deeply a lady when I was 18. Went off to college, her another college. After a yr, got a "dear John" letter from her. I've never forgotten her, and her memory will always be with me.
Why mention that? There is NO WAY I would have given her phone number, address, or anything else out to another man!
I was in love with her, and was not about to take a chance on another man moving in, and taking her away. But, it happened anyway, but I didn't do it; she did. Was I happy for her? I really don't remember, but probably not.
The part you say about not introducting your boyfriend to another girl was "selfish", is garbage. If you really love someone, I wouldn't be trying to "get rid of them" by giving them the names of people I think are in love with him!
DJH has some very good points. Love is a "two way" street. If he is really in love with you, then he won't care about anyone else anyway. If that's the case, then he will not want to meet other girls.
But, why take a chance on introducing him to other girls. If he is yet undecided about his love for you, give him a chance; but not with another girl.
If my wife of 28 yrs suddenly decided she would be happier with another man, would I be happy for her if she left me? I really don't know; and don't want to find out. I do wish you the best, and if I were you, I would hold onto a boyfriend, and be honest with him; but don't try to get rid of him by introducing him to someone who thinks they love him, too! Just tell her "no".
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