I have been in constant prayer, because every attempt I made to reconcile at least a civil friendship has ended in a nuclear blast of profanity from him, he left the home because of his own behaviors , text massaging ,internet, staying out , just total disrespect of his marriage, me and his home of course he blamed me.

On Thursday I decided to stop accepting his calls and its been2 days and I have got with some prayer sisters and have been in prayer and standing on faith.

My husband went to prison for 9 years... 5 months after we were married and I waited and stood by his side the whole 9. I suggested he go to a halfway house before coming home and he got angry and accused me of wanting to keep him locked up, so he found another woman's home to go to, after a month there I let him come home and 2 months later, he began text messaging his picture to people he met on the internet , he joined internet dating sites, staying out without answering his phone or returning a call back, just total disrespect of his marriage, me and his home and of course he blamed me.
Then he began to say all this in the home was mine , not his including the car.. duh.. I mean it would be said if I had nothing to show for his 0 years being gone.

We argued every time he was caught in the mess and when he left it was because of his own behaviors and selfishness, also he left while I was a way at the store.

My husband and I have been separated for a month now,

I use to answer his calls and try to see him and it always ended with me in pain and turmoil. Well I decided to stop answering his calls and texting. And I must admit its hard for me to ignore his calls but I had to back up and let God do what needs to be done in my life and my husbands life. He is not use to me not being available, but I noticed that while I was he was having his cake and eating it too.

I will not even listen to his messages without a prayer sister, because I do become weak to him and feel guilty. I trust and believe in Gods words and his promises and I have done all that I can, so now I STAND.. Please keep us in prayer.

My husband is becoming furious now that I am not answering his call, but I will trust that during this time God will strengthen me and reveal to my husband his ways and lead him on the right path. We were married 10 years on April 27th and we were to renew our vows, we did spend the day together, but there was no communication about our marriage or our separation... I love my husband and I know he loves me, but God has to be first.

I also feel that for once , I need to let him come for me, because I have always been the one to come after him and keep the marriage together, and forgive his defects and let him know I love him, this will be a first for me to let go, and let him show some effort for this marriage.
I just wanted to know if I was wrong for not answering his calls or text. I read someone else question similar to mine and I really like the responses... so based on the evidence... I would love some feedback

Honey it sounds like you are already doing a wonderful job. Stand your ground! Don't put up with that you deserve SO Much better than he offers you! God loves you and he has a man out there waiting for you who will shower you with love and respect and all you have to do is find the courage to completely SEVER this damaging relationship and move on!

I am praying for you my dear sister and I know that in GODS faith and love you WILL persevere!