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No by any means . When I say our boyfriend he has been my husband's boyfriend for at least 18 years. And mine for 14 years. It has always been us 3 . Just hanging out .

Skell: yes all the above I feel . Honestly except the adultery . And by no means do I feel selfish... if anything I feel as if I am giving so much of myself to everyone else soon there will nothing...

Thank you all for your advise. It really help me think . Although as of right now I am torn. Yes sex has happened w/ the boyfriend, but... it is almost like when I am with him , it is only him . ...

I love my husband dearly . I also love his boyfriend . But in totally different ways . I am having issues hurting the other man . When I am w/ my husband my attention and love is all his . The...

New to the site . Just have heard that there some good advise .
Ok . Is it possible to be totally in love w/ two people? One being your spouse and the other a friend ?