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It doesn't sound like you love him, unfortunately. He is a great guy, but you probably don't see him like "the one". When it comes to marriage, I say you have to be really certain, especially if you...

Sounds to me this is exactly the kind of long distance nuisance I have heard of before. These relationships have lots of gaps that need to be filled. One partner tells about his/her whereabouts and...

Do you have any proof of him being an introvert? There are some introverts who behave this way throughout the relationship. About the text messages, it's OK that you still get the reassurance of love...

The lack of confidence is making you paranoid. Look elsewhere in your existence, you are definitely not satisfied with something - education/career/looks/etc. I used to be insanely jealous when I was...

The fact that she;s still with him despite it all is beautiful. I meant no irony.

The fact that he was displaying non verbal aggressive cues - eyes squinting, straightening position of the body, passed by me and invaded my personal space - was a general fright/scare and combined...

Number one rule coming from a wife. If you have any fears about his former female companions, no not inquire, nag or become obsessed about it. It can ruin the relationship, and what's even worse:) it...

I have to admit I love your answers everywhere

Well, this is quite a predicament. I am also highly educated and very demanding of myself in matters intellectual. I can relate very well to your need of having an equal partner as your spouse, but I...

On the one hand I think it's a beautiful thing what you're doing, staying with him even if he doesn't fulfil your needs, on the other, it may be that you either have low self esteem and don't want to...

There is an exercise that I used to do when I was in the exact position as you. Not being able to get over someone: sit with your legs crossed in the meditating position, somewhere quiet. Now think...

When someone emphasises certain feelings towards you in such a manner, not only are they not indifferent, but they are actually giving you a lot of attention.

I hope not. He is an honourable man. I have a very short record of men in my life, but they have all been outstanding, as human beings. It could be, of course gossip at the place of work, someone...

I've always liked these straight answers. I would love to be able to do that and I am positive I will. The thing is, I am an over-thinker when it comes to this guy. I give importance to certain...

Discussing things with spouses, the direct approach, no matter how harsh, has always been my no. one advice to anybody that has ever asked me how to make a marriage last forever:) Thank you for your...

Now this could be true. I have given a thought or two on the matter, my relationship with my husband is a long term and we never fight, we never even argue, we are the most stable couple we know. We...

In theory, all these are facts and they are worthy to be taken into consideration, but what I am struggling with is exactly what has escaped my rational mind. I am aware I should not bother, I am...

There is no innocent "friendly" contact with your ex and the dynamics of marriage do not allow for this, ever. You will bring in the Hell hounds:) Do not think twice before doing such a thing, THINK...

I actually talked to mu husband about the entire situation. I love him too much to let anything like this come between us and I believe if he is aware of my inner emotional state, he will be able to...

This story is quite amazing. It reminds me of mine. I didn't write it up here, as I don't want to recollect anymore:)Still, When you kissed him at the airport and went on to marry your present...

I thought this pimple would take less than 12 years to pop:) How are you so sure it's not love? The truth is love is very hard to describe.

Soon you'll get into such a depressive state that you'll need counselling, shrinking and tons of prozac to keep you walking. Do you hear yourself? "I am an independent woman, but I do everything in...

Honey I would normally say you shouldn't stay with someone you know you have no feelings for whatsoever. It's a major lie at your expense and his. It can work out for a while, but you''ll get more...

Honey, you sound really young:) this guy has got to go.. no second chance, no "i love you's"... nothing. Stop and think for a moment: do you honestly see yourself with him in 5 years? Having his...

We've had several encounters before, but there was no incident. As I said before, we pretended we didn't see each other. You are quite right, there must be sth at his end:) I have no intention of...

My intention, when writing here was to understand his behaviour during our last encounter. Why would he act that way?

It's probably regrets for the way things ended, but I don't understand why is this coming to me after suuuuch a long time. There's also a powerful attraction that I have for this guy that I was able...

DEAR forum users,

I am a married woman with a very active life. No children yet. 12 years ago I had a crush on a guy and the sexual attraction between us was extreme. Of course, it didn't work...