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Well, no he is going for joint physical custody. The last time he requested this we never went to court, he backed down. He is now taking it to court. There has been no change in circumstance. ...

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I will try to be brief. I have two children with my husband. We have been living apart for 2 years, I filed for divorce 22 months ago. Our divorce is not final and we still do not have a...

I have been legally separated for over 2 years. I filed for sole temporary custody of our children at the time and received it. He has visitation with our children for 2 hours one week and 10 the...

Hmm. You said that he was abusive? Is he on medication for his bipolar? Have you tried counseling? Is he a drinker or drug abuser? Have you sat him down and had a serious discussion about his...

Why Why Why?? Why do women do this? You are setting yourself up for disappoinment. If this is really the "one" then break it off with this guy. Go about this the right way for the sake of his wife...

I would put a plan together. The first part of the plan should address spending more one on one time with your husband. Set a date night, non negotiable, go out just the two of you, blow dry your...

Men are funny but you are in a very difficult situation. Let's look at this just from a factual point of view. You are married to him, she is sleeping in the bed with him. Not a very pretty...

I have always been very open and a very clear communicater with him and very clear on my expectations. As for this party, the expectation was we would be at his ex's house from 4-6 and his family...

Go to Peoplefinder.com. Punch in his name and state and see what it comes back with. My marriage is not on record out there for some reason but his old marriage is. They show all relatives...

I have two children with my husband and he has two from a prior marriage. I have an issue that I cannot seem to get past and am looking for some opionions. I am not going to use any feedback as...

I have to say that when I took my vows on my wedding day I never had any expectation that I would be getting a divorce several years later. I am not really looking for advice, but rather a forum...

I could NOT Agree with you more. I think you nailed it. I am so tired of people making excuses! Talk Talk and more talk. The man I am married to never speaks about his feelings or his wants...

You should be so proud of yourself. I don't know how old you are but I am sure that this was extremely difficult for you to step into a potentially dangerous situation to ensure the safety of your...

Great story, miss those days.. I would be the bigger person and go talk to him. You are young you will soon understand. If you want to stay friends then don't make a big deal out of the fact he...

I agree with you on your first points. I don't think that it OK either. No, there is no specific reason that his family doesn't care for me. I would never get into an argument with his siblings. ...

I am actually 40. I wish that you were right but I just can't help but feel like an alien around them. I have provided a beautiful home and life for all of their grandchildren and have always been...

I really hope you are not pregnant, it doesn't sound like you are at all ready to deal with the possibility of being so. And you shouldn't, you are 15. Take a pregnancy test about 30 days after...

I do try. I really do. Last year when I was pregnant they came in to town for my stepdaughter's 8th grade graduation. They all spent the evening at my husband's ex-wife's house, no kidding, my...

I have many issues with my husband's family and need a sounding board to see if I am just overreacting. To begin, when my husband and I got engaged not one of his family member's congratulated us,...

That is a very sad story. I know how she must feel. I was pregnant with identical twins and they were born 3 months premature, one living and one stillborn. My son was in the NICU for 30 days...

I believe that it was extremely rude of this couple to invite your wife and not her spouse. Whether they were friends prior to your marriage or not, you are a couple now. If it was just the wife...

You need to tell him to STOP. Pure and simple, fight or no fight. What he is doing is making you uncomfortable and he should back you up, client or no client. He needs to understand that you...

This brings up another point somewhat related to the initial posting. Morals and values start at home and should be consistent. I am so tired of watching this sliding scale. When I was a kid (I...

Wow, I have to appluad your determination in all of this. Your wife wronged you and yet you seem so to love her and your children. It takes a special kind of person to face that and still want to...

I have found that most of the people I know have cheated or been cheated on. I hate the fact that people want the best of both worlds. One is the stability of having someone solid in your life and...

People change, friendships change too. I think she may have had some jealousy issues with the fact that you went off to college, made new friends, had a great job. Then compound it with both...

I do feel as though I have been doing this on my own and I know that I can continue to do so. The only thing that has been holding me back is the kids. I never wanted to raise children without a...

Well, last night he said he was done. We have not been getting along at all. He threatened me and told me that if he thought I was going to get the house, I was dreaming. I purchased this house...

Ok I may have misread. Are they not having a wedding and reception? If they are not having one at all I can definitely see you attending the shower. Still stand firm on the fact that it is not...

No. If they are in the church, they are at the reception.

Only friends of the bride should be hosting a shower and the fact that the bride and the mother are hosting it is really in poor taste.

To compound their bad manners they are inviting people to...

Look at it this way. This man has been carrying on an affair with you for over a year. He is still married and going home to his wife after having sex with you. He is probably having sex with her...

Your mother is a jackass and doesn't have a clue what the definition of being a mother is. I would NEVER EVER treat my children with anything but love regardless of their race, health etc.. You...

TALK TO CHILD Protective services and get THEM OUT OF THERE. If in fact they must be separated it will be better in the long run that being under the influnce of an abusive parent. You can do...

I have a similar issue and the only way to answer that question is to file for divorce and see what the judge says. My husband and I each came to the marriage with homes (me two and he has one). ...

You are 19 and have so many great years ahead of you to live your life and discover who you really are. There is no rush, if he loves you and you love him, it can wait! At 19 you probably have...

Oh this must be so painful for you. You said that you regretted not acting sooner and my advice is don't give yourself another reason to feel regret. Protect your son, go to court. Your son...

Why are you wasting your time being involved with a man you will never have? Not to mention the immorality of sleeping with a married man who is lying to his wife and children so that he can be with...

I agree that we have all had our pasts and some things are relevant and some are not. The fact that she brought this up recently probably has something to do with her guilt and remorse for letting...

In response to the comment, "Contrary to the popular belief, those kind of things really do just happen. And it is usually because he is bored with the plain vanilla sex at home"

I think that it...

My husband was drunk one night and placed a plastic bag over my face and started choking me. He did this while our 2 month old child was in the bassinet at the end of the bed. I called the...

I appreciate the comments. I know that I would be long gone by now if we did not have two children together. My biggest hesitation in pulling the trigger is that I am so fearful that a judge...

I think as you knew it was coming you and your husband should have thought through the financials of having them live with you for the long term.. Ya, but this is life and things never work out that...

Shame on you for even getting involved with a married man. He is never going to leave her and if he left her for you, he would eventually leave you for some other fool. Don't be a homewrecker and...

Wow, I think I must be reading about my own life! I say it is worth a try to go to counseling. Sometimes people change and sometimes our illusion of who we thought they were fades and we are left...

I feel for you. Don't ever feel as though you are alone. Do you have a priest that you can go talk to? If you are not religious that is OK, I think that any priest would be willing to talk to...

OK, Do not let this woman alone with your child! She clearly has a history of some type of personality disorder and abuse. Abuse because that is what I would call Burning someone's fingers with...

I have been married for 5 years and have two children with my husband. I am a professional and have a great career. I make 80% of the income. I have been paying the mortgage, utilities, nanny,...