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To Richcali and J-9 I really don't understand the hostility. I reponded to the question at later time. It is NONE OF YOUR CONCERN as to when I answer and what I say. I have always tried to be...

OK. I have to agree with everyone else. It seem that you have done all you can do. If you think divorce is your best option, I would encourage you tell take care of yourself before you enter into...

WoW what a novel. I don't think it would be fair of me to give you a response if I have not completely read it. At this moment I don't have that much time on my hand. I guess I should be clear. I...

Haha I just read the other post.. Rudy... forget about school being out. This appears to be the work of a drop out. Maybe the aliens that took him need realationship advice and they programed him...

Suggest to your husband that you guys start having "date night". For example plan a night where you guys go to a romantic place. Or plan exciting things to do over the weekend. If you guys are the...

Your 15 and he is 16 and you want to get married. Where do you guys plan on living? Married people generally don't live with their parents. Do you both have jobs to support yourself (Burger King...

For me it is plain and simple. We have abandoned the moral foundation we once knew well. The world has never been perfect, but I think that over time we have eroded the boundaries that were set for...

If this man is any man at all and he truly doesn't want to be the cause of your marriage ending, then he needs to leave you alone. You need to leave him alone. If your emotionally checking out (it...

As I read your post my thoughts were either you're pretending to be stupid or you're seriously immature. Which ever it is, you are not completely void of the basic concept of right and wrong. You...

It is not up to you to trust him. It is up to him to prove that he can be trusted. You are not the guilty party here. HE betrayed YOUR trust. The fact that he has stopped communication with her is a...

If these are recent e-mails, I would suggest counseling. Ask him why he feels the need to communicate with her. What does he feel is missing in your marriage that he feels compelled to seek the...

I agree with Blakecory, it is your husbands responsibility to restore the trust back in your relationship. I hope he understands and respects that this will not happen over night. Im sorry to say...

You say you are tying to figure out why you haven't left. Well maybe its time that you took out some pen and paper and write it down. Think long and hard about it. You say that you have always put...

He has cheated on you 5 times and you have gone back to him each and ever time and you wonder if you're a doormat. People treat you how you allow them to treat you. Clearly you have given him the...

I think it can be fixed, but I am not sure how "easy" it would be. I think the role a father plays in a young girls life makes a big differnce in how she will be as a women. Mothers need to step up...

We are a society that promotes and glorifies TRASH. Then we look puzzled when our kids start using bad words and then we are even more confused when these kids grown up to be adults that use those...

I was thinking about the Imus thing and him referring to these women and “nappy headed ho’s”. It made me think about other derogator things men say to and about women. I also started to think about...

Anytime individuals such as Jesse Jackson and Al Sharton get involved in an issue dealing with race... people automatically assume it is not legit and that it's just another complaining.
I agree...

karent23 that website was good reading. I completely agree with the article. Quote:
The Rutgers players are nothing more than pawns in a game being played by Jackson, Sharpton and Stringer....

Good Topic Ruby.

Let me first say that I do not care for Al Sharpton. When he appears at the time of any civil rights issue he makes it worse rahter then better as far as I'm concerned. Who the...

Realestate1, I have a serious question for you.
Feel free to answer or not. After reading everything this man has done to you and your children...
Please list the reasons as to why you have not...

I know you don't want to leave him, but have you thought about you and the kids moving out for a while (or make him leave) so that you can have some time away from him to think clearly? It takes two...

Give him his space and talk to him about it at a later time. Or wait until you guys are in bed when he should be more relaxed. He may be more willing to discuss his issues at that time. Men do not...

Yes excon, I was thinking in that since. If the VP knew and saw them drinking (and from what I understand they would end up drunk) and they got hurt on the job or went out and hurt someone else or...

I just started working for a small compnay. I just found out that two of the managers consume alcohol in the office after most of us have gone home. Apparently the VP was aware of this and for some a...

Girl RUN don't walk out of this marriage. I hope you think before you give this man another 10yrs of life, which you CAN NOT get back. If he wants to be a bachelor
So bad, file the paper work and...

If he loves you that much and knows that he wants to be with you for the rest of his life. He will wait for you to be ready. If you even have to ask the question you are not ready to take that step....

I hear you Ruby, but it just doesn't seem right to sit by and watch it happen. I took into consideration that it may very well end their friendship and of course I would not want this to happen. But,...

I know she is your best fried, but try being a good human being and tell her husband what she is doing. He has a right to know. I could not stand by and smile in his face knowing the truth. Do the...

I think you might want to put this engagement thing hold until you get this resolved. If she will not stop talking to him now, she sure enough is not going to stop when you guys get married. This...

I also think all of you should go to counseling. The only thing you can do for your mother is be there for her. In the end the ultimate decision is hers, and hers only. Give her your advise/opinion...

I think the time away from him will do you some good. It will give you sometime to put things into perspective. Once you realized that you life DID NOT come to end when you left him, you will then be...

I hope you have a good support system. It will help you through all of this. Family , Friends, Church or Bible will help you stay strong and stick with the tough decsion you will make regarding this...

Your husband is not coming home until the next day after a night out and you say you don't think he is cheating. And you know this because you ask the girls he was with. Are you serious? Are you...

WOW.. I can feel the pain in your words. When he is calm, I would ask him to talk about what's going on. I know men are not usually good at talking about their feeling, but considering your married I...

Wow..

All can say about these various comments is HOW SAD.

WOW!. from what I read you have other major issues you need to be concerned about. He is in jail... move on... find someone who is a stable and productive citizen.

Man you have glutton for punishment.

Never really understand why women put themselves in these situations. At what point in our lives do we say “Mommy when I grow up I want to be some mans concubine". Please forgive me for being harsh....

I think you know the answer to your own question. You are just waiting on her to do it. Then you will feel free to leave. What total disrespect. She is probably cheating on you as you read this.

When she gives you a deadly disease, that lives your kids with out a father, then will that help you walk away? Kids any favors by staying. If anything you are setting a poor example of married...

Thinking your husband friend is attractive is one thing having a crush on him may mean you've lost that high you use (I assume) to get from your spouse.
I think the reason your husbands friend...

This lady is messing with your head and apparently doing a good job at it. Don't waist your life chasing someone who doesn't want you. When love is a mutal thing it's wonderful, but when it is one...

I hope this brings some perspective in your life. I knew a girl once who was raising her little sister. I didn’t think much of at the time, but one day I decided to ask her about her parents and why...

I never really understand why women put themselves in these situations. At what point in our lives do we say “Mommy when I grow up I want to be some mans concubine". Please forgive me for being...

Thank you all for your advice. To clarify things I had no issue with him betting with her. The issue for me was the prize. I think the “prizes” were too personal. It should have been something that...

I need some serious advice. Last night my husband and I were discussing our
Day at work. He proceeds to mention to me that he and a female subordinate have
A wager on who can loose the most...