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Only you know her history and whether you should trust her or not. Only you know how she acts when she gets drunk. I think I could trust my husband, but I'm not sure I could trust myself or the people around me. I don't drink!
Go with her and make sure she has a good time. Then you don't have to worry. Why would you be worried in the first place? Has she done anything to make you worry? don't you trust her? Does she act inappropriately when she's drunk? Not a lot to go on here.
Couples ( married or not) should not want to go out and "party" without the other, it would be like going without part of yourself.
And if you add drinking to the situation you are merely putting fuel on a fire that will only bring pain.
The fact that she wants to go out without you is one issue into itself, and obvious from the question you don't trust her in doing so.
You have basicly the choices, tell her she can't go, tell her go ahead or go with her.
Obviously there is little choice in the situation. I would say that first there are many other issues in your relationships that need to be addressed, what would make her want to go out and party without you in the first place.
Yes, I would worry, especially if it's without you. In fact, I'd forbid it. If she insists on going anyway, then while she's gone pack her bags and leave them out on the porch. Then change the locks. A wife's place is with her husband, period. If she doesn't like that then you're better off finding a new wife. But I don't think that'll be necessary. I think that if you stand up to her she'll probably come around. She might not like it at first and she might moan and wail some but in the end I think she'll respect you all the more.
Yes, I would worry, especially if it's without you. In fact, I'd forbid it. If she insists on going anyway, then while she's gone pack her bags and leave them out on the porch. Then change the locks. A wife's place is with her husband, period. If she doesn't like that then you're better off finding a new wife. But I don't think that'll be necessary. I think that if you stand up to her she'll probably come around. She might not like it at first and she might moan and wail some but in the end I think she'll respect you all the more.
WOW thats abit drastic isnt it??? Pack her bags and leave them on the porch come on!!!
If this is the first time she asked to go to club to drink and dance with her girlie friends, what is SO wrong with that?
I personally (and so is my hubby) not the kinda couple who enjoy nights out alone every wkend, i agree, as i married him, i spend my time with him BUT if once a month she has a girlie night and he has a boys night its not so bad.
I would defiantly worry. I would not go as far as packing the her stuff and leaving it on the front porch. My wife used to go to spanish clubs with her girl friends. Sometimes the boyfriends or husbands would come along and sometimes not. They would usually dance with each other. It is not like they were out to mess around.
WOW thats abit drastic isnt it??? Pack her bags and leave them on the porch 
come on!!!
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