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Old Jul 31, 2007, 03:09 AM
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pregnate by a married man.was it on purpose?

i told this married guy i have been seeing for a year and some, i was leaving town...he didnt seem to happy about it. we have a very tight relationship, i mean were as close as you can get in our situation. Right before he goes out of town he wanted to have sex repeatedly...which was a little odd. Now im pregnate...he's still out of town and i havent told him yet. But i think he did it on purpose... just trying and hoping it will make me stay...what you think?

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Old Jul 31, 2007, 03:50 AM   #2  
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I don't know if it was on purpose, only he could tell you that. Regardless, this guy is a dirty, dirty, cheating dog. You have a very "whatever" attitude in regards to the fact that you have broken up his marriage, in fact you seem semi delighted by it. I also don't understand why you think this will not affect your music career. You do realize a baby is a crazy job, right? You won't be able to be touring and doing all this other stuff with a giant belly.

I would also make sure you continue getting tested for STDS and AIDS. I doubt that you were the only girl this guy was running around with and I also wouldn't be shocked if he had another pregnant girlfriend.
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Old Jul 31, 2007, 06:02 AM   #3  
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This whole situation is a disaster. It isn't too often a married man will leave his wife. Now you are pregnant and he is out of town. I don't think he did it on purpose but I don' t know why you all didn't use protection unless this was planned. You need to get in contact with him and let him know the situation. You said you all were close but don't be surprised if he isn't delighted with the news and skips town for good. Good luck
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Old Jul 31, 2007, 06:06 AM   #4  
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W0WWW! Umm... tell him, because no matter who the father is he has a right to know unless it would cause threat to you or your child. Just wait and when he gets back tell him and see how it goes from there.
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Old Jul 31, 2007, 06:34 AM   #5  
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Originally Posted by ohmygudness
i told this married guy i have been seeing for a year and some, i was leaving town...he didnt seem to happy about it. we have a very tight relationship, i mean were as close as you can get in our situation. Right before he goes out of town he wanted to have sex repeatedly...which was a little odd. Now im pregnate...he's still out of town and i havent told him yet. But i think he did it on purpose... just trying and hoping it will make me stay...what you think?
he either did it on purpose or he just wanted to experience sex before you left. He wanted to be sexual with you because he might have thought it may be the last time you guys might spend together. hope this helped
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Old Jul 31, 2007, 07:21 AM   #6  
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Why didn't you use birth control? Did you WANT to get pregnant?
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Old Jul 31, 2007, 07:28 AM   #7  
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What about you? Did you do it on purpose? Protection has to happen on both ends, dear. It can't just be his fault, nor can it just be your fault.

This cheater probably didn't want child support payments on top of his marriage to another woman. He's using you for sex and now you have proof.

Good luck, this is going to be a tough road ahead.

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Kattalover agrees: My sentiments exactly!
dcole agrees: Yes, you sound so passive in the making of this baby!
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Old Aug 1, 2007, 01:53 PM   #8  
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I hope you two are "close" - you will be tied together (by this child) forever. Will this be his first child or does he have a family with his wife?
Wow, breaking up one family to start a new one. You've got yourself a winner.
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Old Aug 3, 2007, 06:48 AM   #9  
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i told this married guy i have been seeing for a year and some, i was leaving town...he didnt seem to happy about it. we have a very tight relationship, i mean were as close as you can get in our situation. Right before he goes out of town he wanted to have sex repeatedly...which was a little odd. Now im pregnate...he's still out of town and i havent told him yet. But i think he did it on purpose... just trying and hoping it will make me stay...what you think?
did you not use any contraceptive? or did he not on purpose when you usually do? maybe he thought you were using some kind of contraceptive and you weren't, and you thought the same of him. It doesn't sound like something a guy would do, especially if he's married.
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