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Asked Aug 1, 2012, 01:07 PM — 5 Answers
Hi , so i'm 12!! years old girl and my parents want me to get married to a guy who is 14! I mean not in this age but they are dealing me with him . ( as my mom told me they already dealt us when we were kids!! they want me to get married when i'll be 14/15 !! , like in 17/18 century !!!) im really really stressed , im not muslim , im christian but they act like its 17/18 century !!! its 21 century !! i saw him only at balls ( family , or christmas parties ) but i knew him and his family . i feel really bad , when my parents said : Meet your Fiance. that guy and his parents were with him i was like shocked and i cried: what!!!?? , that guy looked like he was confused and stressed too . like he was at a loss . when i said NO to them , his mother smiled and said :that is a natural reaction sweetheart . and hugged me . than we went to another room and she said to me : I like you carnelia very much , i want you to be my Daughter- in- law because i know you from your childhood and your family your very good girl and im sure we'll be friends .. this looked so like in a dream !! , i feel really bad about this topic . ((( , its so mean , i cried a lot about this topic . Please help ! ! (

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Aug 1, 2012, 01:15 PM


This was a dream or nightmare you had last night?

In which country do you live?
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Aug 1, 2012, 01:17 PM
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This was a dream or nightmare you had last night?
no i meant its was so unreal , i through that it was a dream.
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Aug 1, 2012, 01:22 PM


Is this standard operating procedure in your country or region?
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Aug 1, 2012, 01:27 PM
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Is this standard operating procedure in your country or region?
its not , but you know old families . we are religious.
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Aug 1, 2012, 02:15 PM


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its not , but you know old families . we are religious.
It's not a Christian tradition, at least not since Bible times.
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