Me and my fianc?

LearningAsIGo · Oct 12, 2007, 05:51 AM

Not trusting you.... Is there a reason? Did YOU do something to cause him to feel this way or did someone else do it? He sounds really insecure and if you didn't do anything for him to feel this way, he's taking it out on you, which isn't fair or right.

Hun,
This is a BIG deal and you're not going to convince him to trust you over night. Seriously, don't rush into getting married in a few months until you have this resolved. Getting married to each other will not fix your problems...in fact, they will most likely make him feel worse because now he'll think his WIFE is cheating on him. Texting guy friends... He should know that isn't a big deal.
You might want to consider couples counseling. Its common before people are married and you both want to be on same page if you're going to walk down that aisle.

donf · Oct 12, 2007, 06:16 AM

Good morning Puddin,

Weren't you posting the other day about running into marriage when you turned 18?

If I am mistaken, then I truly apologize. Regardless, I suggest you make the fianc? Your ex finance as quickly as possible.

Even if you have never done anything to warrant his mistrust, he thinks and apparently believes you have and you are continuing to flaunt it in his face. The further down the road you go the more trouble you will get.

talaniman · Oct 13, 2007, 05:20 AM

The whole story is here,http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search....archid=1920726, and the others are correct in telling you that your young and there is no need to jump into marriage so fast. Its better to solve these issues you have with this guy first. They will get worse later.

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