I am involved with a married man & i love him so much. when i am alone or on the phone i say i will give up. But from the moment i see him he just start making mad love to me. no one ever make me feel like that. His marriage has been rocky for the last 3 years and i don't want it to be my fault. But he has a strong hold on me. how can i get out, I don't really want to leave but only because it is wrong.
well thanks, i did leave him tonight...he keeps begging but i am going on with my life. Just to be strong now
Good for you. Now don't relent and go back to him. If you do, it will just make him think he can use you whenever and however he wants. You deserve better. Hang tough.
Sorry to point this out, but wasn't is the husband that made the promises to be faithful and not the other woman? Contrary to the popular belief, those kind of things really do just happen. And it is usually because he is bored with the plain vanilla sex at home. So, stop putting all the blame on the gilfriend and start assessing your own situation. One thing I have learned from being with a married man, is that when I get married, my husband is going to be getting laid in the most creative ways I can come up with.
Love does not require that we "suffer" for it to become worthy. You are already worthy, Rajee! However, love requires that both partners be 100% available for creating a safe and fulfilling relationship between the two people. Married people are not available. Without that condition, what you have really is just fantasy and you suffer from being tortured by how closely it resembles reality. Learn this lesson now and it ends the pain sooner rather than later. Learn it by reading the first few sentences here again and then do what you know to be right.
I am involved with a married man & i love him so much. when i am alone or on the phone i say i will give up. But from the moment i see him he just start making mad love to me. no one ever make me feel like that. His marriage has been rocky for the last 3 years and i don't want it to be my fault. But he has a strong hold on me. how can i get out, I don't really want to leave but only because it is wrong.
Shame on you for even getting involved with a married man. He is never going to leave her and if he left her for you, he would eventually leave you for some other fool. Don't be a homewrecker and ask for pity. How do you think his wife feels?
I am involved with a married man & i love him so much. when i am alone or on the phone i say i will give up. But from the moment i see him he just start making mad love to me. no one ever make me feel like that. His marriage has been rocky for the last 3 years and i don't want it to be my fault. But he has a strong hold on me. how can i get out, I don't really want to leave but only because it is wrong.
well... here;s a reality check for you....
his marriage is rocky... OF COURSE his marriage is rocky.
so he says ... right ?
would he otherwise be involved with somebody else ?
come on ....
stay away from married man.
don't you deserve better than that ?
think of the damage that this does to an existing marriage...
the man should get his act together... and you should really walk away from this situation because it will not get better...
In response to the comment, "Contrary to the popular belief, those kind of things really do just happen. And it is usually because he is bored with the plain vanilla sex at home"
I think that it you haven't been married and just the mistress you really don't have a clue what makes up a marriage. Creative sex is not the solution to a happy marriage, it may be a factor that ranks up there but believe me, you can be as creative as you want and isn't necessarily going to keep someone from straying. I have seen it time after time when a partner has an affair and makes the statement that they aren't getting what they need at home. People need to be responsible for their own happiness and contributing to a relationship and not just run and hide from it.
I am tired of people making committments to marriage and family and then just finding excuses to justify an extramarial affair.
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