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Old Jul 10, 2008, 06:29 AM
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Married and Having An Affair with Older Married Man

It's over.

 
     

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Old Jul 10, 2008, 01:30 PM   #11  
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If I were a single woman, perhaps the answers would be different. Married men are usually expected to "pay to play"...nothing is free. I'm not a hooker, but at the end of the day, I want something to show for the intimacy I provide. If I am still in the same situation financially afterwards, is it really worth my time ? Why should he be the only one benefiting from the affair ? Let's keep in mind why I even decided to do this. I like the nice places he takes me and the attention he gives to me, but I want more. He's getting what he wants...why can't I ?


If you were single - sure the answers would be different. They might not be as pleasant.

You are married, he's married and you both have innocent spouses at home. Thinking their life is wonderful. Have you given any thought at all of what you are doing to your husband?? Are you ready to lose him at any moment? Is it worth it?

Selfish is the word that keeps coming to mind.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Jul 10, 2008, 04:02 PM   #12  
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Sexually, he expects certain things from me that his wife should be doing. I think this is a fair argument. I need advice.

If your going to be a ho, you should get paid. Charge by the hour, not the mile though. Don't forget your husband gets half, thats fair.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Jul 10, 2008, 04:06 PM   #13  
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I think he should charge for being her gigolo

After all thats fair.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Jul 10, 2008, 05:04 PM   #14  
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I have trouble even believing this post is legit and not a troll. Nevertheless, Carmen Jones, on the outside chance that you really are as crass as you seem, I offer this bit of advice: If you want to get paid for providing sex, you have to learn the business. Freelance amateurs seldom last long enough to make a living at it.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Jul 10, 2008, 05:42 PM   #15  
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Hello Carman:

I think selling sex for money is just fine. I think calling it something else is lying. I'd rather be an honest hooker than any kind of liar.

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JudyKayTee agrees: Reasonable answer, right. Call it what it is and be honest about it.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Jul 10, 2008, 06:02 PM   #16  
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Oh My GOD!!!!

Honey, I'm really sorry to tell you this, but have you ever heard the old saying "why buy the cow when you get the milk for free"? Well, your the cow. Sex is the milk, and he's been sucking at the teats long enough that if you try to start charging he may just go back out to pasture.

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N0help4u agrees: Why didn't I think about that one!!!??
 
 
     
 
 
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This is a farce. I can not believe what I am reading. Your so full of sh--. I can smell it from my computer. You have a loving husband and your excuse for having an affair is because you want financial support that your not getting. Even if you were single the answers would be no different. Your demanding money for services your a hooker. Plain and simple.

Do yourself and your husband a favour if this is actually a legit question. Get a divorce now. End the marriage and go on your marry way.
 
 
     
 
 
Old Jul 10, 2008, 07:20 PM   #18  
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Cut ties with hubby, as a hooker you can make much more money without him holding you down.

Just when I thought I'd heard it all, along comes a troll that spins this yarn. Jeesh, get a life!
 
 
     
 
 
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Yes....but how is the SEX!!?!?

(sorry, I got that stuck in my head from a previous thread and now I want to ask it everywhere)
 
 
     
 
 
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The sex is good, the cash is better!
 
 
     


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