Marriage before College graduation?
Hey there--
Here is my issue. I am 20 years old, my boyfriend is 21. We have been dating for 4 years, since high school, and now attend the same college. We'll both graduate in 2008 but have spoken seriously about marriage for 2 years. We're both Christians but have had premarital sex (we weren't walking in our faith when we did and feel it may be unhealthy for our relationship to completely stop now- we do practice it safely). Aaand we recently moved in together with a friend of his as our roommate since I had no where else to live. Anyway, we're contemplating whether to get married in 2007 or 2008. The only reason to wait, as I see it, is to be more financially stable. But who says money should have that much control over your life? If we were married I'd feel better about living together and all that. If we wait, things could be hectic planning a wedding our senior year and the chance of us moving out of state for his grad school that same summer wouldn't be easy. I know neither one of us would give up on completing our BS degrees and we don't want children for a few years. We've been praying about it, and to me school and money don't justify our waiting to be married if we already act as if we are. However, I see people's points in that waiting you can save more money and just be older in general (which helps with the odds of divorce in those who marry young).. . advice?