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Old Jul 29, 2009, 08:53 AM
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Looking for hubby

I'm pregnant with a drunk abusive husband i can't find but i miss like hell and wish i could find. His name is p and he means the world to me. We have 2 babies and all i want is to find him. I love him and never have i betrayed him like he chooses to beleive. Please help me bring my family back together. I know we can work it out. If you have any clue how to find this man please his wife and children need him

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Old Jul 29, 2009, 10:43 AM   #11  
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Take it easy. You've been through a lot.

As you have pointed out he was abusive, yet you still feel the need to depend on him. But what you really need to do is distance yourself from such an abusive person and surround yourself with loving people.

Go to your friends and family for support. People who care about you. Furthermore, you should strongly consider seeing a counsellor or a therapist to help you cope with all these traumatizing events.

But you have to believe that you will get through this. It's just a bump on the road, just need to get over the hump.
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i suggest you seek councelling, it sounds to me as if you can use it. i know how you feel, my daughters father was very abusive and he left me. i thought it was the end of my life and i was depressed for 6 months.

now i am with my hsuband and life couldnt be better. it was hard to get past my ex. but i did it and you can do it too!
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Hopefully you do get over your codepency and get counseling.
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