Well maybe some one will help.

What should I do if I have found my wife for 11 years is GAY and wants to be a man in a relationship. We have a 7 year old son and she has an 18 year old daughter. I have 2 children of my own that no longer lives with us for the reason of they heard a conversation with myself and the wife.

I have tried to discuss the problem with the wife but she insists that is was she wants so what to do.

I found out 2 years ago that she had this feeling and now it has came to where she will go out and get a hotel with her girlfriend and spend the night.

I don't want to tear my 7 year olds life apart and my 18 year old step daughter I have had for years. My step daughter knows about her mom and wants me to leave and her and my son go with me I thought that would look odd and every one else would too. My step daughter takes care of the house cause her mom will work 3 nights a week and in class during the day(married a want to be school girl for ever) and when she is not in class she is a sleep she don't do anything as far as house work or anything like that she just barely will fix hot dogs for our son when I'm not there and my step daughter is not there. SO SOME ONE GIVE ME SOME ADVISE??