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    Oct 23, 2009, 06:30 AM
    Insecure husband
    I've been married 7 years. I'm sooo tired of fixing his insecurities. He has had a terrible childhood and I've walked him through it all. I'm getting worn out! If he's not saying he doesn't deserve me, he's saying awful things to me. Ahhhh!
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    Oct 23, 2009, 06:36 AM

    That whole for better or worse thing really gets tiring!

    The thing is, if it was not for you,where would he be?

    I bet he loves you and relies on you.

    Its hard when you love someone who seems to take all your energy,just trying to comfort and support them.

    But.maybe its time to share the load,maybe its time to sit down and have a good talk,something along the lines of.

    Hey baby,I love you and I have your back,but I need you too,and I need your support too..

    Don't just be the giver all the time,if you don't give him the chance to support you,how can he.

    You don't have to be the strong one all the time.

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