I'm Hurt, What can I do.

Lotz_of_Questions · #1 Apr 23, 2007, 12:30 PM

So my husband and I went to Vegas for the weekend. On our way back last night we had the longest conversation about our ex's(6hr drive). I knew he was a player but until I got married I realized how BIG of a Player he used to be. He says he never cheated on me and he changed once we started dating.

But enywayz so he asked me, what would you say if I told you I kissed ......(one of my friend), so i said, i didn't know, and asked him why, and he said, well I did.

I felt so hurt. It bugged me. We have been married for 2 years now and this girl we see alot. She seems weird around us when we said hi. She never told me and I don't blame her and don't care really much about her. It's just that my husband had sooo many chances to tell me but never did. He just didn't feel the need to tell me because it wasn't important to him. But I just can't stop feeling the way I do right now.

What can I do? I know I need to move on and forget about it but it's so hard. I feel hurt and I can't take off my head the image of both of them kissing.

You all should know that my husband was a player but he says that he only had sex with another girl besides me, and he never had sex with any others. So I'm happy about that, BUT I'm so upset about the kissing!

Rina _4 · Apr 23, 2007, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Lotz_of_Questions

So my husband and I went to Vegas for the weekend. On our way back last night we had the longest conversation about our ex's(6hr drive). I knew he was a player but until I got married I realized how BIG of a Player he used to be. He says he never cheated on me and he changed once we started dating.

But enywayz so he asked me, what would you say if I told you I kissed ......(one of my friend), so i said, i didn't know, and asked him why, and he said, well I did.

I felt so hurt. It bugged me. We have been married for 2 years now and this girl we see alot. She seems weird around us when we said hi. She never told me and I don't blame her and don't care really much about her. It's just that my husband had sooo many chances to tell me but never did. He just didn't feel the need to tell me because it wasn't important to him. But I just can't stop feeling the way I do right now.

What can I do? I know I need to move on and forget about it but it's so hard. I feel hurt and I can't take off my head the image of both of them kissing.

You all should know that my husband was a player but he says that he only had sex with another girl besides me, and he never had sex with any others. So I'm happy about that, BUT I'm so upset about the kissing!

I think he realized it was a mistake kissing that girl and that's why he finally told you about it. If something was still going on then he wouldn't have kept it a secret. I think you should find it in your heart to forgive him, we are humans and can make mistakes. After all it was only a kiss. Good thing he didn't sleep with her, it would have definitely been worse.



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