The man I am referring to, I have known a while, and am around a lot when our mutual friends get together. One night I text messaged him to see if he was going to be at a meeting, and next thing I knew we had chatted for a couple of hours. The evening chats continued, but only every once in awhile.

This whole "relationship" started when he told me that I was cute... since then I can't get enough. On Saturday night, we had a party with all of our friends (my husband was out of town on business), and he ended up taking me home (which my husband is aware of). I don't remember a lot of the details, but I do remember kissing him...

I have been married about a year and a half (we have been together for 8 years) and I am very happy. We communicate well, our sex life rocks and we are best friends. Why did I do it? Why do I want to continue talking to this man when I know how wrong it is? He is divorced and 12 years older then me, but I am sexually attracted to him and can't help myself.