| Im confused aboust husbands intentions.
Im new and im confused about my husband. We have been married for 4 and half years and seperated off and on for six months. He moved out and in with someone who was a coworker they were good friends and she is 4 years younger than his mother. He says nothing is going on and I tried to believe him. He is an alcoholic and went to rehab for a month and when he got out the second day he moved back in with the children and I. The one day he got drunk and thought I kicked him out and he went right back to her house. When explained I didnt kick him out and he had a dream about it instead he still refuses to move back here with me and the kids. When he comes to visit she calls here for him four to six times in the day. He tells me how he sleeps in the same bed as her and he doesnt sleep under the covers or how he will crawl into her bed while she is sitting up. Anymore he tells her more than me. SHe even called one day and asked if he wanted to watch a show with her when he went back to her place. I think this is more than friends though he denys it. He hasent changed his address from mine, has my house key, and still has clothes here at my house. He says someday he is going to move back. BUt I dont believe that anymroe. I think they are having an emotional affair. I even read on the interent about it. ALl signs point to that. I also think they are sleeping together though he denies that to he even says he isnt living there and not paying bills just stayin there for awhile. I told him though my children are not allowed to go over to that house. He says she is his bestfriend. Funny though he lost his wedding ring there and she never found it and he lost his glasses outside their house. She has called here before crying over him. When im upset he doesnt act as if he cares but her he is there in a heartbeat. When she said their friendship was over he called her constantly until she answered and they were friends again. BUt as far as me nope not crud.
WE have four kids 7,6,5, and 3 he isnt even active in their lives anymore. Says he is ashamed so bascially has walked out on them. He doesnt help with bills since he left three weeks ago.
Isnt this an emotional affair or possibly more? I know he isnt going to admit it if they are sleeping together. I know they have kissed once but they both said it was a mistake. But I still think more than what is being told.
*I need to input that the lady is supposly his bestfriend-she does call me to tell me when he is drunk-she brings him over because he has no DL (suspended for DUI..go figure)-he does munipulate me and her tries to get us not to talk, but he tells her she is caddy. I still think they have feelings for one another.Her being 44yrs old and single and my husband being a 26yr old alcoholic. I know she is codependent on him and does not want to lose him because he has helped her pay the bills. On another note there is another roommate and her boyfriend who live at that house. The lady claims most of the time he does sleep on the sofa unless he is drunk. They have given me their home phone number and her cell (which she hardly answers) If this isnt an affair than possible my husband is an alocohlic trying to make me jealous as can be. He says he doesnt want to come back yet cause he is ashamed and does not want the kids to see him like this as he saw his parents..anything make sense or am i the only clueless one here...maybe its safe just to leave well enough alone and go my own way.
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