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If a married man emails an ex girlfriend would that be considered cheating

Asked Jan 19, 2010, 09:14 AM — 19 Answers
Me and my husband have been married for seven years and dating before we got married five years . He cheated on me several times and I forgave him., now he emailing and calling one of the women that he cheated on me with, in one of the emails he sent her he told her that she was still pretty and he loved her lips and that he could suck on them all day. But he tells me that, its not cheating. Is this cheating or not?

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Jan 19, 2010, 11:24 AM
It's cheating.
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Jan 19, 2010, 06:56 PM
Doesn't matter what he or you calls it, it's hurting you and he had no need to be doing it so why is he?
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Jan 19, 2010, 07:07 PM


It is cheating,

If this was a "old" friend from before you meet and he is asking about their dog or how their kids are, that is one issue,

This is the person he had an affair with and most likely will again soon
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Jan 19, 2010, 07:12 PM


Yup, it;s cheating alright!
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Jan 19, 2010, 07:13 PM


To help you better, I've added a poll to your question.
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Jan 19, 2010, 11:10 PM
I vote yes, it's cheating.
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Jan 20, 2010, 12:28 AM
Yup from me as well.

My husband would be dead meat if he told another woman he wanted to suck on her lips all day.

It may be time to stop being so forgiving.
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Jan 20, 2010, 12:58 PM
I think a better question would be:

"How many more times are you going to forgive him for cheating?"

Haven't you had enough?
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Jan 20, 2010, 01:04 PM
I think him telling her those things are a bit out of line. Why isn't he respecting his wife? Why isn't he talking to you like that? How many times has he cheated on you?

Get rid of the scum bag because he looks like he is on the cheating road again.
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