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Old Oct 10, 2007, 01:57 PM
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husband having an affair
hes having an affair over a year. I have 3 kids. He claims hes trying to come back but i push him away meaning nagging him. what are the chances he will walk away fromme?

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Old Oct 10, 2007, 02:04 PM   #2  
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He is already half way there. Can you provide more info please?
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what do youmean half way where leaving? he claims he cant abandon me and the kids
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According to you, he has someone on the side, so he is a part time husband at best. How long have you been married, and why do you put up with adultry? How old are you, and him??
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You keep pushing him away and he will not just be half way out the door soon enough. Not many men will stand for that treatment. If he claims he cannot leave the you and the children does that mean the affair is over and he is willing to have this marriage mediated and remedied? As in counseling, actual effort, no more affairs, and honest forgiveness?

Why do you think he saus he cannot leave you and the children? Do you doubt that he is sincere? Or is he wanting to stay because the light finally dawned in his head about facing child support and alimony?
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He has already abandone you and your children, he is having an affair.. Why are you letting him go back and forth between you and the other woman?
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