Hi Everyone,

Does anyone else get sick and tired of reading posts on here from women asking for advice on what to do because they are heartbroken and torn that they are dating married men?

I would like to open this up for all of us who aren't dating married men - and it can become a bit of a standing forum that all of those who are dating married men to refer to when they want advice.

1. Yes - you are stupid
2. No - He does not love you
3. No - he is not going to leave his wife
4. No - he is probably not going to get a divorce
5. Yes - if he cheated on his wife, he will probably cheat on you too.


Can we add all add from here and pray that it will mean we can all stop offering advice to those silly enough to believe what these nasty men say.

Haxzor50

ahh...

yes!! how about three cheers for sweet revenge on all of those nasty men!!!

iAMfromHuntersBar

Although I applaud the sentiment of your post I don't really agree with you completely, I think each case needs to be looked at individually ... if we could just blanket each question with threads like this ... well this site would just be full of vague answers!

Also, there are men (and women) who are in loveless marriages who do leave thier wives (or husbands), get divorced, settle down with girlfriend (or boyfriend) they love and spend the rest of their lives together!

I don't think all adulterers should be tarred with the same brush!

Thanks for listening!

J

Haxzor50

Well Three cheers for sweet revenge on the men that do that for the wrong reasons!

bluerose

Okay, 2 things.

1) I was living with a married but separated man for five years then discovered that he was cheating on me with his wife! One day he turned around and told me they were getting back together!

2) The thing to remember is.. If a married man can treat his wife, the mother of his children with so little respect what chance do you (the other woman) have?!!"

Ladies, respect yourselves. No married (or separated) man is going to make you happy. If you do find a separated man, back off until he has all his affairs in order - no pun intended.

Marily

I agree with you, adultery just makes me sick

startover22

I would just die if my husband did this to me and yes it would kill me if I did it to him. (the guilt alone would tip me over the edge) I posted something similar to this but I didn't call them stupid. I also think that not all situations are the same and sometimes looking into it, you finally realize this. That is why I am a crank sometimes and a love sometimes........Just love the one you are with, especially if you are married. You gain self respect making a marriage work. A lot of it.

victoria_mitchell

As I posted last month to somone elses question


I'm dating a married man. ((how dumb does that sound!))

It sounds more pathetic, disgusting, mean, cruel terrible, heartless..... etc

My X Fiance and I were deeply in love and so happy and because of a girl like you, hell maybe it was you, tore us apart. I HATE CHEATERS! And to be honest you're giving us girls a bad name to which I don't really appreciate and neither do other people I'm sure

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Raynefreak agrees: isnt that the f-ing truth

and I would like to add that this is why men cheat in the first place!!!!! If there weren't any hussies to cheat with then there would be no cheaters in the first place! And women wonder why they are looked at as "objects"........ Sad, Sad and very Pathetic

victoria_mitchell

startover22 agrees: That would be a hearless answer if the Hussy had no idea the man was married!!! Be a little nicer cause each story is different!

What I stated was directly towards hussies; Just as I stated.

If you didn't know any better or have ANY knowledge that he was married/taken then you are not a hussie, you are just naive and should get out of it ASAP.

Sorry for the misconception

Dennis777

Hello.

I never have understood why people think they can change others. If a man / lady has cheated on their husband / wife how can you honestly think they will not cheat on you. I have been giving advice on this type of site for over 20 years now and the never ending statement of "he / she would never do that to me" OR "its wasn't his / her fault they where pushed into it" OR the best one "it just happened". The bad thing is people belive that B.S. every day. Some from more then one person. I can't count how many times i have received questions that say they have been cheated on in many of their past relationships. Maybe you should start looking at where your finding your Mr. or Mrs. Right at next time.

If a person is in a loveless relationship then get out before you start the new relationship.

Dennis777