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After 14yrs and 3 kids my wife left me. with in 2 weeks she was having sex with her former boss. I feel the bond was there way before she left me. My wife having sex after she left me in that short time "is that still seen as cheating?"
Yes, it is still adultery. You may well be right that there was this bond between her and her boss before she left you. It would make sense. Does your state recognize adultery as a reason for a divorce? Some states are no fault. Either way, get an attorney and go forward. Good luck.
I have been there and I am very sorry that this happened to you. We do not have all the information but the fact that she has had sex with another man is devastating.
There are many reasons to divorce, but sex outside the marriage is crossing the line. Now that most precious bond has been broken and from experience I can tell you that no matter what you try, there is no going back. It won't work or be the same ever again. I took my ex-wife back many times--I tried, she pretended. I had proof and I was very fortunate, I got both of my children.
Yes, my advice is go get an attorney and start divorce proceedings.
I am curious how exactly did you find out "for sure" that she had sex with her boss?