Hi, Im in a situation where im trying to get away form this married man that just wont leave me alone.I told him not to call,but he does and I dont answer so then he will stop by my house.I want things to be over I dont call or answer and I avoid contact.What else can i do??? He says that he loves me thats why he wont let me go.Why?? why is he still trying when he doesnt have to continuously rejected by me.why wont he just go away???

nicespringgirl

What type of relationship you guys are? coworkers? club members? neighbours?

GoldieMae

Tell him that if he doesn't leave you alone, you will call his wife and ask her to tell him to leave you alone. Of course, if you think he may cause you bodily injury, don't tell him that. If you think he may cause you harm, you should seek a restraining order. Tell him that if he trespasses on your property again you will call the police. And whatever you do, don't open the door to him.

CaptainRich

It sounds evil, but maybe invite a cop over, have the officer explain that short of going through obtaining a restraining order, your wish is as good as a demand.

Marily

Maybe a kick on the crown jewels might help

bushg

Next time he stops by, get the phone and call his wife and hand it to him. Maybe she can help him see the light.

Fr_Chuck

A restraining order for harrassment, and/or I woiuld just tell his wife.

CaptainRich

It's possible she don't want him around either.
Maybe Miss Jordan could get advise from his misses, eh? Wouldn't that be special...! PMSL

MOWERMAN2468

hmm, three courses of action here:
1. Contact his wife, maybe provide photos of his vehicle in your driveway.
2. No Trespassing signs that say "violators will be prosecuted"
3. Get a restraining order.
if you have him come past you signs as stated on #2, have him Arrested. Then his wife will probably have questions of her own for him.