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pease · Feb 5, 2010, 11:14 PM

Hi
I am 26 yrs old my hubby is 33 yrs old. I have married before 1and half years I have one eight months female baby.still my baby born we are in abroad. In this time there is no problem in our life after my baby born we are in india in thistime I get job but I didn't interest to went job. Discard it and carrying my child but he said you must went job. This the problem he is struggling me both are need to earn and settle well. Becoz of this problem he doesn't care my child.I know he loves a lot my child. My mother in law and my sister in law also tell some bad opinion on me so he does not come home he settle in his sister home me my baby and mother in law staying in our home. He said when you got job at that time I will be there and you didn't give respect on my relations you must learn those things but I am not like that I always give respect them.now I feel lonely. He not even make a single call an not attending my call also.

Avatar123 · Feb 7, 2010, 11:10 PM

First of all my dear,know that its not your mistake that you didn't work when you had a child.You did it for your child and your husband should have supported you in this else he should have had a child with u.Secondly do get a job that is not for your husband but for yourself so that you will be independent in any circumstances.And when your husband seeing your money comes back to you it will be you who decides if you want to stay with some one who is more interested in your money than in you and your child.this might sound bad to you and I pray that things will turn out for the better and your husband comes to you cause of his love for you and your child.

pease · Feb 8, 2010, 03:01 AM

Originally Posted by Avatar123

First of all my dear,know that its not ur mistake that u didnt work when u had a child.You did it for ur child and ur husband should have supported u in this else he should have had a child with u.Secondly do get a job that is not for ur husband but for urself so that you will be independant in any circumstances.And whn ur husband seein ur money comes back to you it will be u who decides if u wanna stay with some one who is more interested in ur money than in u and ur child.this might sound bad to u and i pray that things will turn out for the better and ur husband comes to u cause of his love for u and ur child.

Thanks avataar
Its really very hopeful to me. I believe my hubby come soon to me.

Shalu Aggarwal · Jun 14, 2012, 02:22 AM

First of all you should make call to your husband and try to talk to him. Express your feeling clearly and make him understand of your wish of not doing job. Firsty you should understand that job is not for your husband, it makes you independent. I know it is difficult to do job with a little baby. So tell your husband that you will again join the job when you feel comfortable it.