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How does a married man get rid of a woman that wants him to cheat on his wife

Asked Aug 29, 2010, 09:23 AM — 24 Answers
I am a bondsman and I met a woman through work that wants me to be her booty call. I don't want to cheat on my wife but I don't want to hurt the girls feelings. What should I do

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Sep 2, 2010, 09:03 PM
I have a strange feeling about this question. My gut is telling me that this may be an ego question, not sure.
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Sep 2, 2010, 09:16 PM
Remember the line "forsaking all others", in your marriage vows? It means keep it in your pants.

Who cares if you hurt her feelings, she's going after a married man, she doesn't deserve to be coddled.
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Sep 2, 2010, 09:38 PM
Tell her to ask your wife if it's ok
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Sep 2, 2010, 09:46 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by friend4u178 View Post
Tell her to ask your wife if it's ok




I have a feeling the wife might object
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Sep 4, 2010, 04:21 PM
Yes, no matter what do not cheat on your wife. I would stay clear of this woman...Someone else can work with her. Also, if you are weak, you should confess your feelings to your wife and pray about the situation. Everyone is tempted from time to time, but know that you have what it takes to resist any temptation. If you doubt yourself, keep praying about it and ask God for the strength to do what is right. My pastor always tells us that men must make a covenant with their eyes. This means that you should only have eyes for your wife. Faith without works is dead, so you have to follow through by making it abundantly clear to this woman that you are not interested. Don't worry about hurting her feelings...She is way out of line. She is disrespecting your marriage.
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#16

Sep 4, 2010, 06:47 PM
You're worried about hurting her feelings, think about your wife and tell this lady to get lost. I'm sure she'll survive your telling her No!
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Sep 4, 2010, 06:53 PM
Tell her to get lost.

Tell her your're being transferred to Iceland.

Tell her you have a wife and you're not going to screw things up by having a fling with her.
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Sep 4, 2010, 07:16 PM
You actually don't need to tell her anything , just do the obvious and ignore her
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Sep 4, 2010, 07:43 PM
Worry about your wife's feelings. Forget this girls feelings.

Your wife's feelings should be top priority.
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Sep 4, 2010, 08:01 PM
Hmmm...what's more important...not wanting to hurt a "girl's feelings" that you don't even know OR not straying from the vows you took...if you can't answer that question, that's a problem.
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