I made the mistake of telling her that the first time I saw her, she was not "my type"...

Please do not "bash" me about this. I KNOW that was stupid, and I was young and not very mature...


Point is, now we've had 3 children and she does not feel pretty... She commented about my above statement in the past, and I don't know what to do.. In fact, I do find her to be very beautiful.. But I don't know how to make her feel that way. Telling her doesn't seem very effective.

Our 3rd child is 3 months old, and she was like this with our last 2 children as well. She thinks I am treating her differently because she thinks that I think she's not attractive due to having a baby... But that's simply NOT TRUE... She is just as beautiful now as ever before.. So how can I get this across to her, where she will understand and believe me?