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roshrani · Apr 7, 2007, 12:54 PM

Hi, well I love this guy a lot en he loves me too but we can't get married because his family is against it. So now when I call him he don ans my call or reply to my text. I can't meet him because he is very far. He is in bahrain en m in africa. I love him en I feel I should wait for him. Pliz tell me what to do.

Clough · Apr 7, 2007, 01:10 PM

I am sorry to learn of your situation. I'm sure that you really hurt. The situation may change concerning how his family feels and whether you can get closer to him in distance in your country.

Do you know why his family is against the two of you getting married? That makes a difference in how your question is answered.

Unfortunately the answer may be for you to move on with your life and seek out another man. It is your choice as to whether you should wait for him or not.

I'm sure that other opportunities for relationships will come to you.

talaniman · Apr 7, 2007, 03:03 PM

Hard to say not knowing what the social customs are, but if he is ignoring you, then I would say that you should not wait for him at all. If he loved you he would be trying to be with you.

JoeCanada76 · Apr 7, 2007, 03:58 PM

Do not wait for him.

Have you two ever met, because if you never really met then you can not state that you love him and he loves you.

As far as distance is concerned and family. No family can stop anybody of being with their true love, if it is meant to be.

To be honest it is not meant to be from what I read and my own opinion.

Long distance plus family problems and him not answering you back is a sure sign whatever you two did or might have shared is actually over.

Please do not wait and let it go and move on.

Joe

diya · Apr 10, 2007, 08:03 PM

I always go by this philosophy... human nature is such that if you try to run after someone, he/she will never come around easy but the moment you stop thinking about or chasing the person, u'll notice it won't be hard to get him/her... try it... n let me know if it works for you... it definitely works for me...

Becca1025 · Apr 10, 2007, 08:45 PM

I know it hurts, believe me I know, but I think it would be best if you moved on. Love hurts, but it does make you stronger in the end. If he truly loved you like you say he does, do you honestly think he would be ignoring you? No he wouldn't. That must tell you something right there. I know you do not want to believe it or listen to that advice, but really, if he loved you, he would find a way. Ignoring you is not a good sign and you should not let him do that. Let him go. It will hurt more than you know, but you will meet someone eventually. Someone better who won't ignore you and whose family won't be against you. Why are they against you? Did he say something about yout to them that made them have that opinion of you? Either way... let it go. Don't keep calling or texting if he is not going to respond. It is a waste of your time. I know this is not what you wanted to hear. I'm sorry and I wish you the best of luck. Take care.