Me and my husband have only been married for 3 months now, but we have been together for 2 years and we have a baby on the way. But I think that he is cheating on me. I have confronted him about it, but all he says is that he isn't. The usual thing that someone who would be cheating would say. Girls are always calling him. I found numbers of girls in his phone that he talks to on the phone sometimes for hours and hours and that he texts all the time. He tries to lie to me about it, but I he knows I wouldn't confront him unless I already know the truth. But now they just call him private all the time. Just the other day one of the girls called he told me that it was his guy friend from work calling to see if he was coming over to his house. But I knew he was lying so I said something to him then he tried to say that he never said it was a guy and that it was a girl. I was like so she was calling to see if you were coming and he was like yeah and I was like you were going to leave me your wife at home and go to some guys house with a bunch of girls and he said he didn't know who was there. I'm so confused I don't know what to do. I'm so angry and sad all the time. How can I find out if he is truly cheating or not?? Or should I already know??

gazelleintense

Guy I work with has been married 18 yrs... he's always chatting on phone, txt mess, email, myspace with women... and he does cheat on his wife. (he's been caught 2 times that I know of and she won't leave him). Id say SHES the one that has issues too. He sees nothing wrong with it. That's what kills me. He has secret emails the wife don't know about, myspace accounts... he slept with a coworker and don't even try to hide it or deny it. Everyone knows about it...

have you asked to see the messages, txt and emails? I would demand that you get to see them. Ask him about myspace and emails he has. I'd bet he has them.

if he's not physically cheating, he is emotionally... he's a married guy... he should NOT be chatting with women behind your back...

gypsy456

that is not a good thing and you are right that you do not accept this behaviour.

he is married.
there is a child on the way.

why would he be talking to girls for hours and hours....
he is married.
to you.

good luck !!!!