Not sure if this is in the correct spot but I figured Marriage would be the place to put it. In 3 months my best friend who I have known since we were 6 is getting married. He has a 1 year old son with his fiancee. He has just found out that his Fiancee has been cheating on him yet he is acting like nothing happened (he tends to act like problems don't exist) .

I am not in the wedding because everyone knows that I NEVER trusted her. And I made it very clear to her when they first met that I do not trust her. I am invited to the wedding but i feel as if this wedding should be called off. I have tried to talk to my friend but he doesn't want to listen (again acting like there isn't a problem).

So I guess my question or questions are This weekend do I tell my friend hey at the forever hold your peace part I am going to say my peace. this will give him the option of saying please don't come to my wedding or Do i say nothing and Just jump up at the peace part and say STOP This needs to stop right now. Also if he says yes please come to the wedding and stop it (which i doubt) will the priest or whoever is marrying them stop the wedding? Or should I just not say a word at the wedding and let the messy divorce that will follow in a few years happen?

What should I do!!!!!!

spitvenom

I talked to my friend this weekend and said If you want to get married after everything you told me last week I am behind you. He said thanks but he is having second thought. I said well what ever you want to do it's up to you. And Whatever you need me to let me know. Then we watched basketball.

Allheart

See, by you not coming at him by saying so much, Don't do it.....it gave him the space to open and and think more. Good for you.

I know it's hard, but you are being an awesome friend!!

Don't be rushing out to get that dress just yet...ooooops, I mean suit

(sorry about that again - the dress thing )