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    Do married men having affairs love their mistresses?

    Asked Apr 16, 2007, 09:52 PM — 25 Answers
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    Apr 16, 2007, 10:11 PM
    I am not having an affair, I love my wife, but I would say from past experience, that yes, a man can definitely love more than one woman at the same time. Sucks maybe, but true.
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    Apr 16, 2007, 10:13 PM
    That is what I was afraid of
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    Apr 17, 2007, 01:05 AM
    Why what is your personal situation. Is your husband or boyfriend cheating on you. If so, it is time to drop the sack of dirt and move on.

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    Apr 17, 2007, 05:37 AM


    Normally no, normally they are looking to build up some of their own ego, or just bored with the same old sex. There is that 1 in 100 that do leave their wife ( or more often their wife kicks them out when they find out) but most will dump the girlfriend on the side if it risks their marriage.
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    Apr 17, 2007, 05:45 AM
    Is there more to this question?
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    Apr 17, 2007, 05:47 AM


    I imagine that they do love their mistress on some level, but its not a healthy love if you really look at it. If it was would it cause all that misery and pain??
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    Apr 17, 2007, 05:49 AM
    Do married love their mistresses? They call it love and it can be a type of love - but is it the marrying kind of love? Must not be, or the woman would not be a mistress any more, but a new wife.
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    Apr 17, 2007, 05:51 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman
    I imagine that they do love their mistress on some level, but its not a healthy love if you really look at it. If it was would it cause all that misery and pain????
    Couldn't spread the love as I agree with you a lot about not a healthy love, its also a very selfish kind of love if you tell me.
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    Apr 17, 2007, 05:53 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Poggle
    I am not having an affair, I love my wife, but I would say from past experience, that yes, a man can definitely love more than one woman at the same time. Sucks maybe, but true.
    Doesn't make sense to me. If the man loves 2 women, a wife and a mistress, then he is hurting the wife intentionly, and therefore he cannot really love her... It goes against the definition of love that I choose to use. You can only love 1 woman if you truly love them (unless there is some sort of mutual arrangement where neither woman is hurt).
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