| Thanks for the hug. I cant say when he changed.its a matter of several ups and downs all through. we dated for less than a year, i got pregnant and he proposed and we got married. then it was ok for a while but we had several arguments with different philosophies. everything for him has to be logically and coldly thought out. for me, i think with my heart at times too. between studies i have gone back home and everything was wonderful till like a month before i left. we separated on a not so good note and it has been impossibe to patch that long distance these last 8months.he is very supportive of my studies(atleast he said so). i left for studies after the first year of marriage.The first time i left, it was much better than this time and we wrote email everyday. we still do often(impersonal emails e.g about war in iraq) but we cant talk on the phone with disturbing silences each time.
he is not a christian and i am.he does believe in God though. we met through mutual friends and he was very sure that i was the one.he kinda swept me of my feet. but he is not openly expressive of his emotions. we are both 30. i am rounding up my studies and will be back home soon but i am dreading it. |