My husband and I are married for 9 years now and we have sons. He started to nag me last 2005, I always set aside that issues, I tried to understand him as much as possible. Year 2006 when he started to bit me. And told me to get out from his house but despite of that I stayed with him for the sake for our children and I don’t want that they will have a broken family.
2007, I got a chance to work in abroad. I decide to keep my children with him as to save our relation for our children’s future.
Notwithstanding the things that happen to us I still do try to maintain our family intact. I respect him and trust him so much which he didn’t to me. These past few months he started to fight me and throw me unnecessary words and even throw me some very bad words even to my parents and relatives which I hated more. My love and respect turns to angriness and bitterness towards on him. I hated every time I remember how stupid am I on why I stick to him which I can't afford to have his trust. I feel so pity in myself. Please anyone can help me this situation, I want to get rid of this stupid marriage life and take away my children on him and starts my new life together with my 3 sons.

You have to do what you feel is the right thing to do.

However, I don't see you taking any fault here; surely there must be some traits or characteristics about you that you might be able to improve? Why does he not trust you, he must have a reason.

You refer to your marriage as stupid. Why is that.

But the bottom line is, if there is no longer any love and trust, there isn't much to build a future on.

Do so. You couldn't live together in peace, and can't live apart in peace either.

If you aren't happy and feel that he is disrespectful towards you, then just divorce him. Why go through all the turmoil? Just do it!