I just got out of a relationship that ended very badly. I want to forget about all of it, even her. I want it to be like she never existed to me. I know all about the moral dilemma as I have been a practicing Wiccan for the past 10 years. This is only for me. She will have no idea about it and she will still have the memories of it all.

Does anyone have any ideas on how to go about doing this?

Midnightsin

Thanks, we got together and talked things out after I had rehearsal. We got some things straightened out. We both apologized to each other, me for saying some rather hurtful things and her for how things went. We have our boundaries set and it looks like things will be alright.

HistorianChick

That's very good to hear.

Make sure you protect your heart, even in the midst of "setting up boundaries."

Midnightsin

Thank you for your kind words. I'm definitely going to be hanging around here more often.

Yes, I got hurt. But I know where I stand with her. She was confused about who she was and she just happened to figure it out while we were dating. She said that she was done trying to be normal by societies standards. With that being said we are going to be friends. Yes, it will take a while for those memories of when we were together to fade. But now I know how love truly feels. The ups and downs of it all. Only time will heal and I have my friends and family there to support me when I need them.

Edward55

Just Fall in Love again.