I believe in magic.is there any spell you know?

I don't know of any magic spells or incantations of any kind that are going to help you in your relationship with your friend. I don't think anyone else will have any for you either.

There's a reason why they call magic tricks, "tricks." They are illusions for the mind...

One of the biggest elements of friendships that are successful between two people, is the ability of each person to be honest and open with the other one. Even if there were some sort of "magic" in terms of a spell, etc., to attempt to use any form of magic wouldn't be being honest and open with your friend, but really "going behind her back."

Some of the other things that being friends involves, is work at making the relationship as friends succeed, give and take as well as understanding, and, acceptance and love when dealing with each other.

For people to help you the best here, it would help if you would share why you lied to your friend, what you said when you apologized and how she reacted.

There are some really helpful folks on Ask Me Help Desk that have had a tremendous amount of experience in helping with problems concerning relationships. If you would share with us some additional details as to why your situation is currently between the two of you, that would help.

Have you tried telling your friend that there is a real challenge (problem) that you are having; that she is the one who could really help you with your challenge (problem); and that, you would really love to continue to be her friend?

Just some thoughts for you...

Thanks!

I just wanted to say thanks...and that i'll love to share my feelings...it's just that I'm a little afraid, I'm afraid to loose my friend...and, look, if you want to help me, would you like to give me your messenger address? It's just to talk alone...don't think about anything bad...please...I really need help...

Thank you for responding! It's okay to share things right where we are now on this very thread. People can't see what a person posts right away, unless they have an interest in the question and go to the thread where the question and responses have been. This site, unlike so many others where people can share information, is extremely well moderated. So, really no worries...

It's also better to post things on this thread, so that if someone else might have a similar problem to what you have, will benefit by the answers that have been given.

So, please just go ahead and share what you have to say. If there is a particular problem that might need the additional help of others, then I know just the right people to ask to come onto the thread.

Thanks!

I can see that you are viewing your User Profile. Please do know that it's safe for you to be posting things here. So far, you are anonymous and it can remain that way.

Ok...if you want so..first of all, I'd like to give you an impression of myself...my name is Valerie, and I'm from italy...(so excuse me for my english...). I've a problem about my friend, and the relationship with her...I lied..(and I feel terribly sorry) but I had to...there's a guy, and she's painfully in love with him, but he does not do so! I saw my friend cry for this guy, so I told her that he had this behavior just because he liked her...but it's not so...and now, my friend want to be with him...but he doesn't know a thing! How can I do? Please..I really don't know what to say to thank you...I feel so down...

Thanks, Valerie! Just for clarification, are you saying that the guy doesn't really like her? What was his behavior and/or things that he said, where you thought that not revealing the truth to your friend was okay for you to do?

Look, I understand what you've said before, but don't you think that we could talk in a easier way into a chat room? Like messenger? Ok? THANKS

I'm sorry, Valerie. It would not be in the best interests of this site, the integrity and purpose of which I want to preserve, for me to start chatting with you outside of it. We have already gotten somewhere on this thread, it would be best to continue here. You also asked your original question on this site in order to use this site. This site is not a social networking site of any kind that a person uses to find those that can be of use to them outside the parameters of this site.

Ok...look I'm sorry...I didn't want you to get upset with me....sorry. Anyway, thanks for helping...but don'd feel better...what should I do?...